Sometime, I think it's quite depressing…
There's those girls, that you aren't much into at all… and they seems to send left and right signals of interest when they don't outright approach you. All this nice stuff totally wasted.
… and on the other end, there's that kind of girls that you want very much but decline/avoid dates or just repeatedly flake on dates when you finally manage to set one.
My own annoying problem: Powerful women, with strong character. You know, the kind who are:
- In control of their life (scratch that, annoying control freak is more accurate),
- know what they want,
- have pretty hard expectations for a man (even if you are NOT their boyfriend/lover, they still want to "fix you" anyway),
- … and will bring ton of drama / strong emotional reaction when things don't goes their way in the relationship (even when there's NO relationship)
I seem to attract girls like this all the time. But… I am very liberal (as oppose to conservative), very rule breaker, absolutely NOT hierarchy minded and mostly present-hedonist oriented. WHY OH WHY those women come to me then? That doesn't make sense at all.
On the other hand, I am usually interested by classic, elegant classy women… more on the soft and experienced side. Think more along the line of Eva Green in most of her characters or Jessica Rabbit (though it's a cartoon, you get the idea). The girls who is the seductress, the vamp, the temptress.
… but… art… nope. I seem to always fail with those girls and ending up attracting driver/a-type personality women.
So not only in doesn't works with the interesting girls, but I also have to spend energy trying to chase away those a-type girls too. And it's annoying because it require lot of energy in conflict management because they tend to make you pay for the fact that you don't want anything from them.
(we really need an article about how to chase away girls that you don't want without creating turmoil in your social circle)
And you guys? could you relate to that?
Does it happen to you all the time too?
(and suggestion to GC Team: an "How to neutralize/eject stubborn Driver women from your life without having them wreaking havoc in it)
There's those girls, that you aren't much into at all… and they seems to send left and right signals of interest when they don't outright approach you. All this nice stuff totally wasted.
… and on the other end, there's that kind of girls that you want very much but decline/avoid dates or just repeatedly flake on dates when you finally manage to set one.
My own annoying problem: Powerful women, with strong character. You know, the kind who are:
- In control of their life (scratch that, annoying control freak is more accurate),
- know what they want,
- have pretty hard expectations for a man (even if you are NOT their boyfriend/lover, they still want to "fix you" anyway),
- … and will bring ton of drama / strong emotional reaction when things don't goes their way in the relationship (even when there's NO relationship)
I seem to attract girls like this all the time. But… I am very liberal (as oppose to conservative), very rule breaker, absolutely NOT hierarchy minded and mostly present-hedonist oriented. WHY OH WHY those women come to me then? That doesn't make sense at all.
On the other hand, I am usually interested by classic, elegant classy women… more on the soft and experienced side. Think more along the line of Eva Green in most of her characters or Jessica Rabbit (though it's a cartoon, you get the idea). The girls who is the seductress, the vamp, the temptress.
… but… art… nope. I seem to always fail with those girls and ending up attracting driver/a-type personality women.
So not only in doesn't works with the interesting girls, but I also have to spend energy trying to chase away those a-type girls too. And it's annoying because it require lot of energy in conflict management because they tend to make you pay for the fact that you don't want anything from them.
(we really need an article about how to chase away girls that you don't want without creating turmoil in your social circle)
And you guys? could you relate to that?
Does it happen to you all the time too?
(and suggestion to GC Team: an "How to neutralize/eject stubborn Driver women from your life without having them wreaking havoc in it)
