Hello again...
It's been a week now since I last brought this girl to view some hotel rooms and asked her to stay with me. I didn't managed to bed her after she saying she's not safe with me. I had a discussion with some of my other guy buddies, and they think she is probably viewing me as a walking wallet, not letting me touch her or walking side by side with me.
She msg'ed me twice, and I just chat with her, not wanting to be rude in not replying her msges. The first one came about 3-4 days after that weekend date? Sending me in a sudden burst of 10 msg'es, which I think she was saying her work got easier and she's has more free time on her hands. The other was just before the weekend, sending me a link to download a copy of 50 shades of grey, since we were talking about it on our last date.
The third one was me asking her how she found the book. In short, she devoured that book 320+ pages over the weekend. O_O I read a couple of pages and found it very boring. Even the sex scenes. Again I probed her how she found the sex scenes...she replied promptly no comments. LOL she still wasn't comfortable talking about it, or maybe I'm still not able to make her feel comfortable. Must be the way I text / talk....LOL
Now today...I received another msg from her, looks like some random funny pics or something. I haven't check it yet as I do not want her to see that I have read her msg but not responded.
I do not want to just rudely push her off, nor do I feel like going out with her again given the vibe I felt between both of us on our previous dates.
Can anyone share some experiences how you guys settled a girl down to friend / let her know you're not interested, but in a gentlemanly manner?
It's been a week now since I last brought this girl to view some hotel rooms and asked her to stay with me. I didn't managed to bed her after she saying she's not safe with me. I had a discussion with some of my other guy buddies, and they think she is probably viewing me as a walking wallet, not letting me touch her or walking side by side with me.
She msg'ed me twice, and I just chat with her, not wanting to be rude in not replying her msges. The first one came about 3-4 days after that weekend date? Sending me in a sudden burst of 10 msg'es, which I think she was saying her work got easier and she's has more free time on her hands. The other was just before the weekend, sending me a link to download a copy of 50 shades of grey, since we were talking about it on our last date.
The third one was me asking her how she found the book. In short, she devoured that book 320+ pages over the weekend. O_O I read a couple of pages and found it very boring. Even the sex scenes. Again I probed her how she found the sex scenes...she replied promptly no comments. LOL she still wasn't comfortable talking about it, or maybe I'm still not able to make her feel comfortable. Must be the way I text / talk....LOL
Now today...I received another msg from her, looks like some random funny pics or something. I haven't check it yet as I do not want her to see that I have read her msg but not responded.
I do not want to just rudely push her off, nor do I feel like going out with her again given the vibe I felt between both of us on our previous dates.
Can anyone share some experiences how you guys settled a girl down to friend / let her know you're not interested, but in a gentlemanly manner?
