Ash's journal

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The lion king metaphors

The lion king shows what’s wrong with looking to movies for advice

The world believing that Simba could kill Mufasa is pretty weird as it is plain obvious that Simba would not be able to do that. Yet the belief of this is one of the key plot points to the movie.

Extended metaphor
Simba could never have been able to kill Mufasa. A lot of girls have Mufasa fetishes because of this fact (and he’s a dad….a king….etc.) and is why they don’t like Simba as much as they liked Mufasa (could also have been his voice)

So imagine the baby lion and a full grown lion as the beginner seducer and the seasoned one. Each muscle strand representing a skillset needed to bed women and to be socially smooth. Since the older lion has more muscle than the baby, it can win in any situation easily. This is the perfect representation of the battle between a person socially/romantically inexperience versus one who is seasoned

 

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Girls and their screenshots!

So yeah, don’t say embarrassing stuff to girls over text. They tend to screen shoot them and send them to their friends and fuck up your reputation in the process. Whether it’s intentional or not, send enough risky shit to one girl and you might end up blacklisted in the female community (whether she falls for you or not).

Keep the risky stuff to either face to face or phone calls (or not, cos of the recording thing, But that might just be paranoid….but still…….)

 

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Goals for 2018

Be loud, be sexual, be chase framey, be proud.

Try to practice speaking the native tongues

Let EVERYBODY know that you do not date (and face the consequences)

Show sexual intent with EVERYBODY (and face the consequences) and try to push to fuck

Be more vibrant via text!

Try not to fuck up academically.

FUCK EVERYBODY

 

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Why we fail to pickup in college/high school

Because college academics move fast. Thus it is hard to manage time properly to socialise AND improve seductively

Because social pressure causes you to chicken out from doing it.

Because as you waste time not doing pickup, your skills cripple out (which is also what can make pickup addictive, so watch out for this).

Because we don’t have/don’t follow a process you use to know that you’re actually going through with it.

Because you forget to: Number close, date request, pull, FUCK

 

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Vibing

If you connect with a girl, then sex is a guarantee. Vibe with her by making her feel the BEST EMOTION that she CAN in any given moment. This usually smooths over into sex as guys like these naturally turn her on. And if she’s turned on, the only way that you can keep her feeling the BEST EMOTION that she can is by teasing her, flirting with her and eventually fucking her.

The “best emotion” may not always be positive, but is probably better than ALL other options. So she can’t really blame me for any negativity because she should understand this.

 

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How to touch expertly: By boosting the moment

If your touch does no add to the immersion of the moment, then it is probably best not to do it. E.g. if you see a friend you haven’t seen in a long time, the way you will touch her is through a vigorous hug and probably spinning her around as you do. Adding to the feeling that you and her are having a reunion. Receiving a massage would feel very out of place in a moment such as this, and thus, is not the correct touch to apply.

 

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How to be honest about your fuckboy tendencies

Simple, just be honest in person (so that she doesn’t tell everybody via screenshots and hashtagging) and tell her in the most respectable way possible. And try to to sound scarred or “emotionally-blackmail-y” when you do.

What usually happens is that she will either accept it, or not. Remember that this is the entire reason why you are telling her this. So that she has the option of bailing before getting hurt.

DO NOT GET MAD AT HER FOR LEAVING

However, usually, after girls choose to next you for your admittance, they tend to COME BACK.

I’m guessing that after processing the fact that what you did was for her and that it takes mad balls to pull off, especially with respect and straight up without any tricks, she finds the admission admirable. And then feels safer to let go around you.

After this then there’s a high chance that you just got yourself a friend with benefit that you can let lose around as the relationship is transparent. And you can be flirty, seductive and as loving as you want to be with her.

Just make sure not to confront her if she seems like she’s hoping you’ll change and is slightly trying to change you. Such an unconscious act is inevitable as your attraction increases. You should only start paying attention to it once she starts actively trying to get you to change. That’s how you know that it’s either time to give her a break, or time to disappear completely (not avoid her, just don’t actively socialise with her), it all depends on what’s healthier for her, since you know you’re healthy since you’re banging everybody.

 

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Relatability

Go mainstream. If you find it hard to talk to people, which I do, then it could be because you’ve been rejecting the mainstream forever and trying to go completely unique. This is good for uniqueness and new experiences but it is terrible for relating to people. And since relationships depend a lot on relatability your pool of girls is shallowed near completely. Hector’s series on why Girls don’t date intelligent guys helped me realise that. It is pretty much something that has blocked me for years and that nobody could pick up on directly.

Mainstream things one can do:
Go to functions
Go to parties
Watch the trends: fashion, TV, social media or otherwise
Learn my native language and its slang

If you’re looking for a specific type of girl to get with then it may be best to do things “stereotypical” of her as you might have been avoiding stereotyping her because you didn’t want to feel like a douche. This could have cause you to avoid “stereotypical” functions and missed out on some awesome learning experiences.

 

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If you gotta pay for the date, make it cheap

You don’t have to pay for the first date if you want to disqualify yourself as boyfriend material.

But if you have to, then you can make the date cheaper by buying different things from different shops.

You can buy the cheapest thing the restaurant has to offer just so that you have a place to sit down when eating your stuff.

Try not to go overboard on this though, as she may end up viewing you as cheap (which can also disqualify you as boyfriend material. Which frankly, I don’t mind).

 

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Spread of effort

Final years, push the hardest

Freshers, be most careful with them .Not pussy level careful. Just most careful compared to everyone else.

The benefits are:
Final years

1. They're leaving, so no social repercussions
2. They’re the final boss. I.e. they’re technically the hardest to get. So, you can up your game by practicing with them. Not only that, but as the years go by year after year, the age gap decreases, making it easier to mack on them

Freshers
1. You save your reputation by being more conservative with them. You still have to be aggressive with them, just that you won’t be as aggressive with them when they say no. You can wait them out. They’ll come around.
2. The age gap increases each year, in your favour. So it gets easier as time goes by

 

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Give everyone a purpose

Don’t just be friends with someone for the sake of being friends with them. Identify what value they can bring to your life and use it to the fullest. If you bring value to theirs (which you should) then they should bring value back to you. No exceptions.
Plus, labelling people like this also helps you know how far up in the group hierarchy you are. He who provides more value is more powerful. Thus, you have an idea of how you can act and what you can get away with in any situation.

 

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The best strategy I can have for the year/my life

1. Unapologetic Progress (numbers, calls + texts, dates, sex) (even if some steps are public) - This way I'm always trying to sleep with everybody. Until she either becomes part of my social circle and I can use her for social circle matters (still thinking about what those are though) or until she rejects/ ignores me.

This will ensure that I at least get to say my part. And may result in me remaining an outsider forever, I can fix that by getting a male social circle.

Also for reasons stated in this post: Satiating the sex drive like a woman

2. Relatability + Enthusiasm + Relaxation (keep her enthusiastic all the way to the orgasm and beyond) - This one's more for me than for results. I always enjoy conversations where I feel like I can say anything to her and we are both enjoying the conversation. The enthusiasm isn't as high energy as the word implies. It's more of a reminder to myself that I SHOULD STOP ACKNOWLEDGING THE AWKWARD SITUATION BY BEING AWKWARD.

3. Touch (to turn her on and INDICATE SEXUAL ATTRACTION) - Noticed this when I read through Ice-cream's journal. Thanks for the clarity bro. Plus it will also add a touch of fun to the interaction

4. Fundamentals - Coz they already seem to be tight. Just need to contain my ENERGY and EYE CONTACT for now.

 

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How to ramble with a quiet girl

Talk about things that interest her and that she finds relatable. This way, as you ramble on, she will listen to you, interested, and learn about stuff that she enjoys. Making the conversation go so smooth.

 

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The serial player is the only player outside of club gaming

Girls need a lot of investment. And thus, need a lot of time. Therefore, being a parallel player (especially at my level) is only going to end in a disaster of slut shaming and stress levelled proportions.

 

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Sex confidence lessons

1. Sex-ed is very anti-sex. And since it's our only source of info, a lot of people tend to fall for the trap. Even though, as they grow older, the anti-sex attitude drops like a brick in a waterslide.

2. The average amount of lifetime sex partners people tend to have is around 7 or 8. 4 for girls. Noy sure if this is propaganda or something but it sure is getting me excited to mack on everybody as the challenge is made blatantly obvious when trying to be an honest player.

 

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Get all your shit together bro

Just a mental note since the year has been going kind of crazy.

1. Fix the time management
2. Fix the studying. Let all consequences happen.
3. Progress with everybody. I have 4/5 possible prospects who I might be able to smash if I work smart at it.
4. Work to achieve everything that I want. The learning phase for EVERYTHING is over. All I can do now is practical stuff. That is all

 

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YOU CAN TAKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is a pretty important thing that I learned today. It's pretty powerful, because there aren't any examples (practically) that will make this statement untrue.

You can take ANYTHING.

You can take EVERYTHING.

Otherwise, it would kill you. Not figuratively kill you. LITERALLY!

So if it can't literally kill me, then I can take it.

And I don't even mean slowly or bit by bit. I mean INSTANT DEATH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When you look at a lot of the things that we are afraid of, we realise that those things cannot do that. And thus, death can be avoided eventually.

You think there are lot of things could "kill" you but, that's because people have turned this word into a watered down version of itself.

If she says "no" to me then I will just diiiiiiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeee.

This doesn't just water down the essence of IMMEDIATE DEATH. But it also Blows up whatever negative thing that was going to happen to you WAAAAAAY out of proportion.

Nothing is ever that bad.

Also, this is something that will help me with my procrastination as I know that no matter what happens, I will be able to survive the consequences.

Because ultimately, that's what life is.....SURVIVAL.

There are always going to be consequences from any choice you make AND any choice that you don't make.

Consequences are everywhere and I've been surviving them just fine for the past 20 years!!!!!

So no more freezing up because you're afraid of making the wrong decision. Because if you judge yourself based on whether there will be zero negative results, then you will ALWAYS make the wrong decision.

Because that is the fact of life. No silver bullets, no perfection, no no no. Your options will be FAR from perfection.

Sometimes there wont even be a right answer.

But there is always a CALL TO ACTION!!!!!!!

So try not to live a life that is void of regrets. Rather go out there with the intent of going out there in the first place.

Because if you DON'T do it......if you DO do it.....if you CAN/CAN'T do it.....the world/you will always suffer for it.

And survive

Your welcome

 

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Theoretically past the sticking point

Okay. So I got past the sticking point that I thought I was in. At least mentally. Putting it all into action is going to be a behemoth of a task. But I feel it will all be worth it. Plan of action:

Target women who would want to sleep with me unconditionally I.e cool girls with enough experience to not get attached. In other words, girls that share my values (or at least try to, as it seems 100% unconditional is impossible)

Play the game somewhat on their terms (provider/boyfriend values) until I get enough lover value for it to be enough

Balance school and business so it can all happen somewhat smoothly

Fuck women between, during and after classes, study sessions and work times

Continuously down the hard truths about women so I can keep in touch with reality.

Get used to having strong body language

Have a main chick and some side chicks. That way I can keep investing in them until their comfortable enough to sleep with me (and I them)

Get a condom budget

Get different processes for different women goals.

Be realistic with my lay count as I wish not only sexual success, but extreme financial and academic successes.

Get a harem. I.e a list of women who provide different values in my life.

Keep my room clean as much as I can. ALL THE TIME so I can allow spontaneous fuck sessions

When talking to a woman, you gotta fight back all those red pill exaggerations she ate

I can keep things up with a girl who rejected me. But I’ll stay somewhat distant from her and go after other women. She’ll see that I’m social and the social proof will let her think she made a mistake. That’s when I slide back in, and if she rejects me, wash rina and repeat. As long as I maintain my strength, smoothness and dignity in all of this then it should keep driving her closer and closer towards me, while still respecting her boundaries.

 

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The calibration series is the bomb

After reading Alek's calibration series, I saw a lot of things that held me back in my seduction process. So if i fix those things up, It may help me become a lay master.

 

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Plan of attack: Ultimate Endeavor

Plan A
Become a closer, ask for investments, get em, and then get people to sleep with me. Fuck reputation. Fuck pride. I need to know where I stand.

Plan B
Bend to the will of the world and become monogamous and sleep with people in return for my generosity.

Name if the game: No sex, no me.

Plan C
Study all of the GC articles the same way that I studied the "How to get girls to chase" book. This one is unlikely to be done, considering how busy I am and how unsorted the articles are (in terms of smooth flow and understanding), although it will help a lot. If I can find the time to organize it all and read em all (all 1800 of them), then I definitely will.

Plan D
Get king of college book. This one is something that I will do guaranteed. The only reason why it is not on top is because of immediacy. I will be saving up for it. Which will take time but pretty much guarantees that I'll get it.

Plan E
Get one date. This one is at the bottom of the list because I'll need to get into business and start working towards it. I will obviously keep doing this as I feel like this is also something that I have to shoot for. But I’m keeping it at the bottom of the list in order to negate any negative effects of too much urgency, which will throw my balance out of whack.

Plan F
Give up on women and become a success tycoon. The more that time goes past, the more that the eventuality of this becomes apparent. So that's why I'm making this post. If seduction really depends on the person doing it, then I'm the greatest example that there are some people that just weren't built for it. By the end of the year, I'll know if this is the plan to do or not as it will depend on whether or not I have the money for KOC or One Date and if I'm getting results. ANY results.

Needless to say I'll try my hardest to carry out the best of the best. The plans I want ideally carried out are A, C, D and E. But right now it is likely that I'll end up carrying out F as I don't seem to be progressing anymore. And since, I really don't want to die unaccomplished then I'll have to make a decision eventually. I won’t be completely off of women. I'll probably try here and there. But as for the dedication, it’ll be reduced into nigh disappearance.

However, should things go well, then I will become the ultimate seducer, continuing to reach new heights, giving women the experience of a lifetime and aiding in the boards wherever I can.

So this is it.

My ultimatum.

My finishing line.

The years of frustrations, teary eyed nights, rejections, exhaustion, mental gymnastics, fear, reinterpretations, reflections, they all end either one way, or the other.

Everything has been leading up to this.
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Plane G (Not an option)
If I'm at this point then all morality goes straight out of the window, and I won't mind sleeping with girls through dark methods, lies, deceit and any means necessary. This isn't even an option. But I have been considering it. If plan F proves to be too much for me to handle, then the insanity might drive me to this. Especially since the rejection from girls during my attempt at doing it nicely will prove to me that this may be necessary. I don't want to be in this place. But honestly speaking I can see the appeal of doing it. The justice. The pleasure. The vengeance. I can't help but feel that if I do this, I will lose everything that I am that I currently stand for. But that I will also lose everything that has made me unsuccessful. I know that if i reach this stage, then I will carry it out with all the academia I've garnered as a nerd which ostracized me socially in the first place. And I will do it all remorselessly.

If there's any advice on how I can fight back these thoughts, or carry it out in a dark knight morally okay way, then I'd appreciate that. I'll also keep looking for them as well. And I’ll work relentlessly to keep myself from coming here.

Peace