Asking her out

[Black Mystery]

I was wondering about better way of the following to ask girls out. What is more effective provided we do it on high note and early on in a interaction?:

1. Let's meet.
2. We should grab a bite this weekend near that new cafe in town.
3. Hey xyz(name of the girl), I want to take you out on a date tonight. Get ready..

Which one seems more powerful, sexy yet more likely to get compliance? Or anything better than this.

 

[pks391]

I was wondering about better way of the following to ask girls out. What is more effective provided we do it on high note and early on in a interaction?:

1. Let's meet.
2. We should grab a bite this weekend near that new cafe in town.
3. Hey xyz(name of the girl), I want to take you out on a date tonight. Get ready..

Which one seems more powerful, sexy yet more likely to get compliance? Or anything better than this.

Black,
As a beginner, i would prefer number 2. Its just safe and seems like the statement which would get you the compliance you need.

Number 3 is the most ballsy, strong ass, lovable dick statement you can make and it may or may not work depending on what frame you set about your personality from the beginning. This will work if you're the cocky, lovable asshole type guy who keeps showing a lot of confidence and ballsiness with her. If you want to know how to set that frame, there is an article on being a lovable dick on the website, i would suggest checking it out.

Number 1 I'd say is pretty discreet and isn't my first preference.

You could also use a little of both number 2 and 3 and make a statement such as, "So you know, I find you to be very cute and charming and I wanted to take you out somewhere on a date."

 

[Marcellus]

Pks391,

Definitely number 2 for sure! Always suggest the date, like you did.

" I would love to see you sometime" Suggestion
" I think we should definitely hang out again" Suggestion
" I'd love to grab coffee with you sometime" Suggestion

Your not asking which makes you seem a bit unsure and a little weak " Would you like to grab coffee sometime?" but a slight little difference, a suggestion " I'd love to grab coffee with you sometime" makes a whole world of difference, you're just speaking your truth. And she can join or decline but anyways your always speaking your truth.

I also liked the final option too. If you're feeling a bit ballsy, Number 3 would be perfect for the occasion.


Marcellus

 

[Bboy100]

Not important. If she wants to see you again, she'll say yes to all three. If she doesn't, she would say no or makeup an excuse to any one of them.