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Hey guys,
Discovered something really useful yesterday during daygame, and that is assumptive opener. Assumptive opener is very easy. Observe something about the girl and say the first thing that you're wondering about her. It doesn't have to be witty and there is no need to impress her. The point is to show interest on who she is and to see if guys can connect. There's no pressure on both u and the girl. It feels natural and you can easily find out what she's interested in. You also get warmer reception if u go direct later on in the conversation. I'll use one example from yesterday. I saw this girl browsing the "culture" section in a bookstore. I saw the title of the book she picked up, and asked her "Hey are you a sociology major?"
Her eyes light up immediately and started talking about how she loves psychology and sociology, even though she's a lawyer. We connected with each other really fast. Then it feels natural for me to ask her if she's single, and it also feels like I'm interested in her because we've connected, not purely because of her looks. Unfortunately, she's not, but we exchanged numbers anyway. So gents, try this out and let me know how it goes! You don't always have to go direct in the beginning. Showing your intent after a girl has qualified is extremely powerful.
Discovered something really useful yesterday during daygame, and that is assumptive opener. Assumptive opener is very easy. Observe something about the girl and say the first thing that you're wondering about her. It doesn't have to be witty and there is no need to impress her. The point is to show interest on who she is and to see if guys can connect. There's no pressure on both u and the girl. It feels natural and you can easily find out what she's interested in. You also get warmer reception if u go direct later on in the conversation. I'll use one example from yesterday. I saw this girl browsing the "culture" section in a bookstore. I saw the title of the book she picked up, and asked her "Hey are you a sociology major?"
Her eyes light up immediately and started talking about how she loves psychology and sociology, even though she's a lawyer. We connected with each other really fast. Then it feels natural for me to ask her if she's single, and it also feels like I'm interested in her because we've connected, not purely because of her looks. Unfortunately, she's not, but we exchanged numbers anyway. So gents, try this out and let me know how it goes! You don't always have to go direct in the beginning. Showing your intent after a girl has qualified is extremely powerful.