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I'm at my local grocery store a lot, and there are beautiful women a plenty here. And I've since been trying out indirect instead of direct, I think its more appropriate for the location.
Problem is that I end up wasting time waiting for an opportunity (like she's looking at some desserts or something else easy to comment on) and that hasn't been going so well.
Plus I'm starting to get paranoid about doing too many bad approaches at a store I really need in my life. Think I'm being irrational here, but that still effects my state.
Another thing that is hanging over me is this new perspective that I'm having on dating. I want to be a good, uplifting presence in women's lives. I already do a good job of that, but making awkward approaches (not all my approaches are awkward anyway, some are really solid) at a place that a woman wants to feel comfortable at, goes against that goal.
So how do I buy my bananas, when I'm worried about these beautiful melons?
Or in other words, help me with my openers and understanding daygame at a grocery store, because right now the openers are feeling forced and awkward, and way too much in my head.
Problem is that I end up wasting time waiting for an opportunity (like she's looking at some desserts or something else easy to comment on) and that hasn't been going so well.
Plus I'm starting to get paranoid about doing too many bad approaches at a store I really need in my life. Think I'm being irrational here, but that still effects my state.
Another thing that is hanging over me is this new perspective that I'm having on dating. I want to be a good, uplifting presence in women's lives. I already do a good job of that, but making awkward approaches (not all my approaches are awkward anyway, some are really solid) at a place that a woman wants to feel comfortable at, goes against that goal.
So how do I buy my bananas, when I'm worried about these beautiful melons?
Or in other words, help me with my openers and understanding daygame at a grocery store, because right now the openers are feeling forced and awkward, and way too much in my head.