At your place, when you start escalating she says "This is weird" -> How would you respond?

[sinksink]

My instinct is that perhaps you are screwed and you should just ask her to leave.

However, it may be that getting her to your place was alot of work and you want to see what would happen

Offhand, I thought of some options:
- Ignore, it keep escalating unless she physically pulls away or tells you to stop
- Keep escalating, try to distract her by saying "tell me about the ______ you were talking about earlier"

I don't see how addressing "This is weird" would help you. She will just find reasons to support what she said.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@sinksink your thoughts are right, ignore it. It's a shit test. It sounds like this is a social circle thing? Usually this would happen because she's used to you being a friend so making you a lover is weird for her. Acknowledging this accepts it and isn't going to help you at all.

Changing the topic is good because you move on, again it doesn't acknowledge it. If your escalation is smooth you won't encounter this, its kinda some LMR that you may have to overcome.

A good tactic for LMR when they say that ya moving to fast is to accept it, tell them they're right and then say something absurd like we should just go an play checkers. Obviously getting physical is a lot more fun than checkers an so you bypass this objection.

Her saying this is weird is a minor objection, if you do have to accept it because shes not so into it you could try a similar script to disqualify her and watch her then try to justify it! check out the LMR advice, some of it will be applicable here dude!

 

[Fuck This]