I'm in my late 20's and I'm a lawyer. The girls I date are between the ages 18-24 and I think I'm having attainability issues because of my job. Girl seem to be auto rejecting me.
Whenever I'm on a date with a girl and she asks me what I do I tell her I write, travel, I practice law and I like to go cycling. Or I'll say in a playful tone, I'm a superhero. I practice law and protect the inncocent from consumer fraud and identity theft. Just kidding, I work for the government as a lawyer. I try not to emphasize my career. I only briefly talk about it if she asks and I try to maintain that sexual vibe so I can be put into the lover category and not the provider category. On dates I'm very sexual with women. I always kiss, hug her close, hold hands, talk about sex etc. I talk about things I like in sex and she talks about things she likes. I get them to sit on my lap, touch me, massage me. I massage her, rub her vagina etc. I always stay sexual and try to never talk about my job/career.
But lately I've been getting friendzoned by girls who are in the college age. For example I went on a date a few weeks ago and I briefly mentioned my job on the beginning of the date. Throughout the date and the next couple dates girls have said to me,
"My family lives in Greece. You'll meet them someday"
"How much money do you make?"
"I feel like you're always busy when I text you"
"Are you looking for a relationship or friends with benefits?"
"You worked so hard. You're going to be making bank."
"You're just going to find another girl"
I'm having trouble getting sex on the first or second date like I used to when I was in college. Girls will resist me or just friendzone me through a text message after a date and say I don't want to sleep with you even after theyve admitted that I'm not in the friendzone.
One girl said to me, I knew you were a freak by the way you first looked at me. A few days later she texted me and said, "I think its better if we're just friends." Lately, Ive told girls that I'm looking for a job and I'm not in college but they then look me up on Linkedin, facebook or google and can see that I'm an attorney.
Can you tell me how to get with girls in the 18-24 age range without auto rejecting myself or seeming like I'm too unattainable?
Whenever I'm on a date with a girl and she asks me what I do I tell her I write, travel, I practice law and I like to go cycling. Or I'll say in a playful tone, I'm a superhero. I practice law and protect the inncocent from consumer fraud and identity theft. Just kidding, I work for the government as a lawyer. I try not to emphasize my career. I only briefly talk about it if she asks and I try to maintain that sexual vibe so I can be put into the lover category and not the provider category. On dates I'm very sexual with women. I always kiss, hug her close, hold hands, talk about sex etc. I talk about things I like in sex and she talks about things she likes. I get them to sit on my lap, touch me, massage me. I massage her, rub her vagina etc. I always stay sexual and try to never talk about my job/career.
But lately I've been getting friendzoned by girls who are in the college age. For example I went on a date a few weeks ago and I briefly mentioned my job on the beginning of the date. Throughout the date and the next couple dates girls have said to me,
"My family lives in Greece. You'll meet them someday"
"How much money do you make?"
"I feel like you're always busy when I text you"
"Are you looking for a relationship or friends with benefits?"
"You worked so hard. You're going to be making bank."
"You're just going to find another girl"
I'm having trouble getting sex on the first or second date like I used to when I was in college. Girls will resist me or just friendzone me through a text message after a date and say I don't want to sleep with you even after theyve admitted that I'm not in the friendzone.
One girl said to me, I knew you were a freak by the way you first looked at me. A few days later she texted me and said, "I think its better if we're just friends." Lately, Ive told girls that I'm looking for a job and I'm not in college but they then look me up on Linkedin, facebook or google and can see that I'm an attorney.
Can you tell me how to get with girls in the 18-24 age range without auto rejecting myself or seeming like I'm too unattainable?
