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Hey guys,
I noticed the strangest thing recently. Usually I go with the intuition (also backed up with Chase's article https://www.girlschase.com/content/attr ... or-it-isnt ) that a girl is either attracted to you or not. I also like Varoon's traffic light system. Makes things efficient, which I like.
Well more than once, and also yesterday, a girl who in the past was kind of aloof against me, with things like trying to make me comply (which I denied with random bullshit, lol) and not eager to deep dive became super enthousiastic with me. I had this happen with multiple girls, girls I had already written off and maintained a "polite" distant relationships with. Suddenly months later they become very enthousiastic and receptive. Yesterday's girl invited me over to her place for drinking "tea" which was quite forward from where we stood in the past.
What am I missing here? I have not suddenly become a millionaire or much prettier. Also can't say I was preselected because I was in an introverted mood for some time.
So have these girls hidden their attraction in the past or are these really newly attracted girls? I am confused and would like to hear your opinions.
MAYBE relevant by the way: I am not a conventionally handsome guy, but I sure have my perks, which maybe become clear a little later on besides my obvious athletisism.
From a pragmetic side, it ofcourse doesn't matter, but I remain interested about the theory.
I noticed the strangest thing recently. Usually I go with the intuition (also backed up with Chase's article https://www.girlschase.com/content/attr ... or-it-isnt ) that a girl is either attracted to you or not. I also like Varoon's traffic light system. Makes things efficient, which I like.
Well more than once, and also yesterday, a girl who in the past was kind of aloof against me, with things like trying to make me comply (which I denied with random bullshit, lol) and not eager to deep dive became super enthousiastic with me. I had this happen with multiple girls, girls I had already written off and maintained a "polite" distant relationships with. Suddenly months later they become very enthousiastic and receptive. Yesterday's girl invited me over to her place for drinking "tea" which was quite forward from where we stood in the past.
What am I missing here? I have not suddenly become a millionaire or much prettier. Also can't say I was preselected because I was in an introverted mood for some time.
So have these girls hidden their attraction in the past or are these really newly attracted girls? I am confused and would like to hear your opinions.
MAYBE relevant by the way: I am not a conventionally handsome guy, but I sure have my perks, which maybe become clear a little later on besides my obvious athletisism.
From a pragmetic side, it ofcourse doesn't matter, but I remain interested about the theory.