Aura = Magnetism?

[diegoC]

I know it's kinda spiritual to talk about aura but I'll explain what I have experience.

I guess everyone has read about that magnetism that someone might cause, that draws people towards you. Some of it is build up because of your fundamentals (posture, mannerism, eye contact, gestures, etc). But there is more, for sure.

This is what happens to me. I've always notice that animals love me (in general). I'm pretty sure the dog doesn't want to hump (they don't do this, just in case, jeje) me because of my posture. They just like me. They come to me, the like to be pet and the way I do it (I guess).

The same with babies. Yeah, babies are curious, for sure. But I notice the usually pick on me to look at. And they just keep staring at me (unlike girls who don't want you to catch them looking and try to be really cautious). I was walking the other day and a girl was carrying his baby on those chest things. The baby didn't stop looking at me. I was walking a little faster so I passed them. On a red light she got to stand next to me. Again, the baby. I just told her "She loves me", and she responded "Yes."

Don't you think this is some sort of inner aura/magnetism that comes from within? Love to hear some thoughts.

Cheers!

 

[Tyme2k]

I know exactly what you speak of. I haven't taken much time to actually examine it and find out how to use it more. I too have extreme connection with animals and children, especially babies. I think some people have a natural vibe, since I had these abilities long before I knew about game.

If I were to theorize about it off the top of my head, I would say it's similar to how positive emotions create positive results. If you were afraid of an animal and assumed it would hurt you, it's much more likely to actually hurt you than if you assumed it would react warmly. Same with babies, if you tell yourself you're bad with kids and have apprehension towards them, chances are they will react to you in a negative way also.

If you go through a day with a nasty look on your face reacting to everything with a negative vibe your day will be shitty as all hell. However if you go through your day with a smile and care free attitude, brushing off negative things, you will have a much better day. Same thing with pickup, if you assume the girl is attracted to you in the beginning instead of guaging reactions and reacting to those your interactions will have extremely better results.

What I find really interesting is when two people's auras combine and an amazing connection is formed rapidly. MOST of the time this doesn't happen, but when it does it's other worldly.

Clearly this is something worth diving into deeply.

 

[diegoC]

… since I had these abilities long before I knew about game.

Yeah, me too. Glad someone can relate

Clearly this is something worth diving into deeply.

Indeed.

Cheers!

 

[dvjackson]

Babies actually do largely value the same qualities that adults do in determining how much they like a person. They aren't just neutral to everyone like you might expect them to be. There have been studies that show that infants spend longer periods of time looking at people with good-looking faces than people with unnattractive faces.

Not saying there couldn't be something spiritual to it, but it isn't necessarily as unusual as you might think.

 

[Drck]

Very interesting topic. There is a difference in how person expresses himself, e.g. note differences between depressed person, someone who is generally cold, or happy smiling guy.

Personaly I don't think that aura – in spiritual sense – exists, however by observing people you can definitely see different “energies” that they are projecting around. And vice versa, people are reacting to those projected “energies” differently. The word “energy” may not be correct but I don't have better expression, plus if you start talking about energy or seeing energy/aura in others, she'll get quite excited because man can finally relate to her quite well. My experience.

Anyhow, in my opinion it comes down to mood. If you are overall depressed and negative, generally people will try to avoid you because they feel that you are dragging them down. Lets call it negative aura, quite “heavy energy”. If you are a “tough guy” who is giving everyone hard time, people who don't like confrontations and fights will avoid you as well. Lets call it asshole aura, “unpleasant energy”. On the other hand, if you are a happy person, outgoing and keeping it light, many people will most likely like you, they will relate to you. Who woudn't want to be around happy guy? Lets call it happy aura, “light energy”.

I believe that Jesus (here we go, all you sinners) had a great aura. But I see it rather as combination of his personal characteristics and his belief – all this inner conviction was reflected in his bodily and facial expressions, in his actions and speaches, in his every move, in the way he behaved towards people. The aura usually painted around his head is just symbolic, those painters expressed themselves as “seening” quite unusual energy. In real life he didn't really have a golden ring around his head. But I could be wrong.

Persons current mood/emotions and inner convictions are reflected externally on posture, facial expressions, tone of voice and other physiological responses of the body. It is much better to see mind and body as the same, although many spiritual texts see them seporated. Some people are more sensitive and they just know how the other person feels. I think women can feel it much more intensively than men thanks to mirror neurons, but with some training you'll get good as well. Children don't have developed mind/thinking yet, all they perceive is emotions (so if you have positive emotions, the child just reflects it). I think I am pretty good at “seeing” people's aura. I simply enjoy observing people's behaviors and expressions, I try to feel the same as they are projecting themselves, and I note the differences.

If you are having difficulties with “bad aura” or “bad vibes”, start working on your moods. Practice meditation, practice being relaxed and comfortable around her. She will love it, she will become comfortable and relaxed around you as well. At the same time practice assertivity and show her some dominance so she doesn't think you are just smiling idiot (aka nice guy).

 

[Flames]

It's a very interesting subject and although it's not something you can prove one way or the other I too believe there's something like this with certain people I also believe that people's 'auras' can effect each other. Maybe that's how ppl can have a calming influence on other ppl, or really really annoy them with apparently doing anything at all.

I find I can really effect people's moods, both ways, with very little effort. It's something I've actually been very confused about in the past but I'm getting more of a grip on.

 

[Zoro]

You should read Vibrational Medicine by Richard Gerber M.D.

It approaches "Aura" and other spiritual sounding things found in ancient medicine from a scientific western point of view. There are many things you cannot see that you already accept. Radio waves, x-rays, even sound. Check it out.

 

[TheWiseFool]

Animals, such as dogs, are very keen to the "energy" we emit. I can relate cos I was pregaming at my friends house and his dog wanted me to pet him and stood by me out of all the people, and yet... there I am some stranger. Just today, these three guys... all acting like big shots, making fun of people... I was able to diffuse their aura and convert it into that which I wanted... positive energy. One of the guys said, "You have this thing about you, I can't explain it. But, you'd be a great therapist." One of the guys was trying to make a joke, but the guy said, "Nah nah I'm serious." And at that moment, I knew I won the group over because the other two guys were trying to please this guy. In all of us, there lies our true selves. We don't hate one another, we are just scared at times, scared of being judged, being thrown under the bus. Who we want to be are curious individuals who want to learn and ask questions and become better than who we really are. Like children. I know we want to have fun, but we genuinely want to grow. And I was able to speak to that part of him... the guy who wants to learn rather than say, "HAHAHA what a loser man!" I certainly affirm the idea that our state of mind and who we want to be for not only ourselves, but for others, affects our lives and the lives of those around us. "Be the change you wish to see in the world." - Mahatma Ghandi

Also, there is an experiment about how one's thoughts were able to affect water molecules under a powerful microscope. If a person thought good things when looking at the water, such as "I love you, you are awesome, etc" the water was harmonious and relaxed. But when a person thought, "I hate you, go die, no one loves you" the water was erratic and chaotic. Think about that for a minute or two. Our thoughts have an impact at the molecular level. So let us give off an aura that seeks to build and raise others to the best that they can be. In doing so, people will always be attracted to us because they will feel this unknown, inherent sense of security around us. I think this flows into seduction in that before intimacy can occur with a man, a woman wants to feel safe and secure around him. That she can trust he will not abuse her but give her that which he also wants, love and intimacy and passion and all that stuff.

My two cents. This is an awesome thread.
- The Wise Fool