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Hey guys,
there's a girl in my social circle who is causing me a little bit of headache. A year ago she was very into me - I was flirting with her and the other girls of that group but I never did sth with her (but fucked two other girls from the same group). One evening we made out but I told her that I didn't want to take her home because she's too sweet (I still think so), so I basically rejected her and sent her into auto-rejection. A month later I changed my mind and actually tried to pull her, pretty insistently, because I was going abroad for 7 months and she told me she wouldn't be around anymore when I come back. I got rebuffed by her but I left the country soon after her. So now I'm back in my country and she's stil lhere.
We're back to being flirty, but I can sense that she is still in auto-rejection. The problem is, that she sometimes kind of randomly tells the story how she rejected me to other people when we're in a group-setting. Yesterday there was another girl there I like and this girl and she told the group "Do you remember Damien how we were holding hands one evening and you really wanted to show me that church? But then I didn't go with you." (I used that line a couple of times to pull a girl home last year - there's a church next to my place). So she is publicly stating that I wanted her and she rejected me, which is not the best thing. I think it doesn't affect my reputation too much, she's kind of the naive baby of the group, but it still annoys me cuz I don't know how to answer this.
TL;DR: How do you respond when a girl is telling a story of her rejecting you in front of you, in a group setting?
there's a girl in my social circle who is causing me a little bit of headache. A year ago she was very into me - I was flirting with her and the other girls of that group but I never did sth with her (but fucked two other girls from the same group). One evening we made out but I told her that I didn't want to take her home because she's too sweet (I still think so), so I basically rejected her and sent her into auto-rejection. A month later I changed my mind and actually tried to pull her, pretty insistently, because I was going abroad for 7 months and she told me she wouldn't be around anymore when I come back. I got rebuffed by her but I left the country soon after her. So now I'm back in my country and she's stil lhere.
We're back to being flirty, but I can sense that she is still in auto-rejection. The problem is, that she sometimes kind of randomly tells the story how she rejected me to other people when we're in a group-setting. Yesterday there was another girl there I like and this girl and she told the group "Do you remember Damien how we were holding hands one evening and you really wanted to show me that church? But then I didn't go with you." (I used that line a couple of times to pull a girl home last year - there's a church next to my place). So she is publicly stating that I wanted her and she rejected me, which is not the best thing. I think it doesn't affect my reputation too much, she's kind of the naive baby of the group, but it still annoys me cuz I don't know how to answer this.
TL;DR: How do you respond when a girl is telling a story of her rejecting you in front of you, in a group setting?
