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Auto-Rejection - Proximity

LFAD12

Space Monkey
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Hello everyone,

I was wondering if anyone has some experience on auto-rejection turnarounds through proximity.
Say, in a classrool for example, where you're forced to see each other multiple times throughout the day.

As mentioned in the article, the girl always does her very best to avoid you at all costs, to the point where even simply saying hello seems impossible without looking a chasing chump.
How then, can you actually engage with the person and make her feel warm?

I'm asking since I'm in a situation like this right now with a girl who send me massive IOI's and even initiated conversations with me, only to turn cold after I may have been came across as too aloof, nervous, possibly mixed at times.

Where she initially startes ignoring me, avoided all forms of eye contact, I kept composure and distance - reminding myself to remain friendly and cordial.
Now, we are at a point where she does quickly smile back and greet me when passing, but still averts her eyes and goes on.

Is there any way too start a conversation in this situation without *obviously* chasing her?
How?
Any succes stories in a turnaround?

My social proof is more than decent in the environment.
Interaction with most of the other women are going well.
 
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Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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Just move in and materialise next to her side to side at some time when theres an opportunity, her standing momentarily somewhere, & chat her up over the shoulder (relaxed mystery style), "oh hey, How is your day going.. " as if you just stumbled across/saw her.. drive some convo adequate to her "paranoia" state adding little techs.. acknowledge her smoothy etc.

in social scenarios like you describe loads of opportunities will be there and its not chasing at all this way. Just you doing your thing, accidentially being next to her. Looks the same from the outside if you do it smoothly. Eg with lowered attention span like youre in your own world, just chilling and getting some food or whatever is there.
 
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