Auto-rejection: What comes after point of no return?

[Mr.Rob]

Hello gents,

I have an auto-rejection situation I'd like to gauge your thoughts on.

Now for those that followed my last post about taking a break from the game I'm still on my hiatus and searching for solutions for my low T erectile dysfunction issues, thus it's funny I'm posting asking how I can make this interaction work when I won't be able to fuck her if I do get her lol.

I just hate losing when I could've won .

Basically I have this girl in my business program I see 4 days a week. Long story short I positioned myself as a really boss dude in the program and she became attracted to my inherent social swagger (read power).

I've played super aloof with her pushing her right to the edge of auto-rejection but pulling her back before she gives up all hope.

As of Friday I think I might have pushed her too far into auto-rejection. Because of business program we're going to be seeing each other 2-4 times a week for the next 8 months no matter what so this could be potentially awkward as can be if she fully auto-rejects to the point of no return.

QUESTION: What would happen if she went fully into auto-rejection? Is there hope we could just be friends when things cool off or are we going to have to avoid each other for the next 8 months.

 

[Drck]

Personally I tried to actively make 4-5 girls to come back after auto-rejection, each with different intensity. Needless to say, none of them came back. It seems that no matter what you try you are just pushing the girl away, that's at least my experience.

Once she is gone she will go cold. She may behave like a friend, she may reply to couple messages, she may be polite, but she is simply gone. She could care less about you. It is sort of "nice and friendly break up", they still give you some interesting vibes, but IMO they all lost total interest...

Anything you do is simply perceived as chasing... It doesn't really matter what you do, as long as she knows she is on your mind she will be running away...

Thou shall not chase, that should be Rule number 2, right after Thou shall never fall in love... Thou shall take his own advice (that one is specifically for me, LOL)

IMO the best way is to go cold, drop the idea that it will work out. Get her out of your mind. Be there, be friendly, let her come back, but at the same time don't expect her to come back just because you are not chasing her... In this case some may come back, even if it takes longer time...


My 2 cents, would like to hear other guy's experiences though...

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I just hate losing when I could've won
>>>> Yep, I hear you, that's the worst... You always think that you still have a chance, yet anything you do is just pushing her away... BIG Ego

 

[Mr.Rob]

Yeah thanks for weighing in Drck.

Totally agree with you on the chasing aspect and if it is too far like I think then just forget about it and see if she reinitiates.

I really could care less of the outcome, but I can see that there is potential for good emotions if it worked out. But if not then I'm pretty okay with that as I can just approach a girl in another class as there is more where this came from.

More or less just curious how this situation would play out socially in the long run.