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Avoiding WhiteKnighting and Things You do not Want

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
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HI Guys,

I noted that there's a tendency to label "nice guys", "marriage" as something we do not want. One must remember that "nice guys", "marriage", "whiteknight" are all labels. They can be a different meaning to different people, but the important thing i want to note here is Never say Never.

What do i mean by Never say Never, especially in dating context? Don't say you never gonna get married too much, Don't spend your time criticizing nice guys too much. Don't ever say you not ever gonna do anything

One of the fundamentals of this universe is Focus. If you focus on any labels like "marriage", "nice guys" or anything, that includes bad thoughts for an extended period of time, you are going to create a world fill with that, and you do that labels that you swore you never do.

So understand that things in life are labels, variables. "Nice guys", "Marriage", "Bad boys" are all labels. They are only that, as reference. Again, Never say Never, (at least don't say so much) :)

Zac
 
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