Awesome first date, how to proceed now?

[needadvice]

Hey guys, so to keep it short - met a really cute, super chill girl at a bar a few days ago and got her number.

We hung out wed night and had sex (first date I guess). It went perfectly, I love talking to her, she's really cute, good sex - is definitely a girl I want to keep hanging out with and get to know better. Have not met many girls this cool.

Question is, what do I do now? I don't want to screw it up by appearing too eager, even though I am pretty sure she had as good of a time as I did.

My instinct is to text her tmw to meet up tmw night because I would love to see her again and think she wants to see me.

Don't want to freak her out though. Is that too soon to text? Does it matter when to text if everything is going well? Am i totally overthinking everything haha

 

[needadvice]

Anything guys...?

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Dear needy, haha

Once you have bedded the woman some things change. Needy is not wanting more sex. Needy is being clingy, jealous, and/or controlling. The rule is sex first then hang out as a reward to her. Always reward positive behavior and do not reward negative behavior. Invite her to your place, have sex then go do something then go back to your place for more sex. Do this often. You should be having sex with her again tonight. Right now she is wondering if the sex wasn't so great and why hasn't he texted. Text her something like this.

Wednesday was awesome. I loved being inside of you. Let's get together tonight.

Make the part about the sex personal. Reference something that happened during the sex that was awesome that she did for you. Have sex with her until you wear each other out. She wants you as a dominate man.

BDSC

 

[needadvice]

Thanks man. Any other advice?