Awkward situation with girl after our date

[orion222]

So I asked this girl in my college class out on Valentines Day; she said yes; I was a real nice guy, paid for the date, pulled open doors for her, and did pretty much everything this website says not to. Of course it didn't go very well. After the date, I pretty much disappeared and sat as far away as I could (300-person lecture hall), but I decided to sit in the same row again the next week and she has been sitting beside me since then (I usually get there first and do homework). From her body language, it seems like she's interested, but there's still a lot of flakiness, so I'm not sure what to make of it. For example, we have worked on assignments every weekend, but I haven't texted her to do that; yesterday the first thing she said as she sat down was "did you do the assignment?" Then I asked her if she wanted to work on it the next night, and she's like "Oh, I have a sorority meeting I don't know." I told her to text me, and she didn't, and then today she said, "Sorry I didn't text you; I was really busy."

Questions:
1. Why is she actively coming to sit beside me if things didn't work out and I'm making no effort to really engage with her?
2. Why is she acting like she wants to do stuff and then flakes?
3. What am I supposed to do in this position? Right now, I'm pretty much doing nothing. I have not texted her and I don't make much of an effort to talk to her in class.

 

[orion222]

And when I say it seems like she's interested from her body language, I'm not just saying that. The other day I was sitting, reading the textbook before class, and she starts looking at me out of the corner of her eye, and then I asked her a question about one of the formulas and she leaned in so close and grabbed the book. I just don't know what to do about that... all of the articles on this site are about meeting new girls.

 

[luego]

. I just don't know what to do about that... all of the articles on this site are about meeting new girls.

If you do a search, you'll find a ton of articles from chase on both classroom-game, and social-circle game. This is mostly the former and perhaps a touch of the latter.
Plus, look up "second date" strategies, since you've had one chance and now need to hard re-frame.

 

[Eric]

For example, we have worked on assignments every weekend, but I haven't texted her to do that; yesterday the first thing she said as she sat down was "did you do the assignment?" Then I asked her if she wanted to work on it the next night, and she's like "Oh, I have a sorority meeting I don't know." I told her to text me, and she didn't, and then today she said, "Sorry I didn't text you; I was really busy."

Questions:
1. Why is she actively coming to sit beside me if things didn't work out and I'm making no effort to really engage with her?
2. Why is she acting like she wants to do stuff and then flakes?
3. What am I supposed to do in this position? Right now, I'm pretty much doing nothing. I have not texted her and I don't make much of an effort to talk to her in class.

She sounds like she's fucking another guy, to be honest.

1. You're either a backup strategy if she's sleeping with other men and you're the backup / comfortable guy, or she's chasing after you and playing aloof (much less likely)

2. Again, she has another guy, so she's going to flake on you. That or she's actually busy (very very very unlikely, girls are NEVER busy for a guy they are sleeping with).

3. Nothing, you move on. When you've moved on to another girl she'll start chasing you. If you want her back before this you can be an asshole and call her out on the aloofness / flakyness (but not asshole as in angry / annoyed, just asshole like you don't give a shit about her and she's taking up your time). "You're too flaky for me", "Sorry, I've been busy", "No, you're not THAT busy, buy me coffee to make up for it", "Okay, sure". It's high risk game, it's probably going to blow up in your face, but there's a possibility of it working. It can come off as a little weak, but it's better than sitting there twiddling your thumbs or chasing. "Get over here [your place] and work on this shit with me", "Can't atm, tomorrow?", "No, I don't have time, you need to come, I'm working on it with or without you so if you want my help we do it today".