Hey guys! So my campus is very huge and I'm positioned in the area on campus that has the worst rep, it's funny because once I mention it someone will always cringe without ever actually going there. I usually hit the liquor stores for my roommates and i take the bus there, throughout the semester there would be a girl that would drive this bus, of course it is not always her but I would see her just say hi and get on the bus and relax. I would check her out pretty discreetly and kind of make my sex energy known, I would just project it in her direction. Needless to say I never asked her out on the buses, etc, so now we fast forward to about two weeks ago.
I am walking from a dinning hall where I had just ate by myself and chatted up a girl or two, generally I won't go out just to get girls but if i see one I may randomly spring into action or I may not. So after that interaction I was feeling pretty good and also warmed up. I was getting a lot of attention from the girls in the cafeteria but I don't know how to capitalize on it, any tips?
So back to me walking, I was walking up the hill and I spot a girl across the street that is about to cross to where I am, I notice her lipstick first, a cherry red and then I notice her figure, fucking curvy and sexy. I slow down a bit and she ends up on my sidewalk as I am reaching the crosswalk so we are right next to each other and I open. Now when I open i am all about being genuine in intentions and feelings so I usually just say what is on my mind and the way I deliver is usually like WoW look at you and I kind of go from there.
So I open this girl with a simple "Hey"
She responds with a "Hi"
I say "You're very fucking pretty, I'm Raqimus."
She responds "I'm Busgirl"
Now after this I don't have a plan and so i just start talking and changing topics until I can establish where I want things to go. So i ask her if she has a moment and she says she does but she is also running late for work. So we talk.
Now i don't remember the exact words but I can remember the topics, the vibe, and the flow of conversation. We talk about how i recognize her as in im a bit skeptical like "I totally know you from somewhere". Then she mentions she drives the buses and I'm like yea totally thats it, and then we move into her major and we chat about that. During this little chat I use strong eye contact, I'm relatively close to her, and I am very relaxed in my body. We both are smiling and I make her laugh because I am a silly sexual goose.So I use sexuality and sprinkle in humor because I like making people laugh and feel good. I am also speaking warmly with her and rather loudly because this girl is very quiet. I invite her to hangout with me but she says she has to work so i ask her if shed be down to hangout some other day this week, and she says sure. I try to set a date there but no go so i just say that we can figure things out later.
After I got her number I moved her away from the street while we were on the sidewalk towards the inner part and she followed but also seemed like she had to go so i gave her an opening to leave and we went our separate ways.
Now, I have found that hitting up a girl the same day has not worked for me so well in college, I have had not a lot of results with girls from cold approach or social circle it seems like I've done better at bars or parties. So even though I used to hit up girls the same day in the city I began trying to hit them up the next day and it begun with busgirl.
We text a bit later on and i try to set up another hangout but she leaves me with a maybe and i move on. I end up buying booze later on in the week and see her on the bus and in the silence she mentions she got back with her boyfriend and i let her know Im cool with it that i can fuck her on the side, its whatever. She is very flirty and sexual, maybe I'll see her again but if not it is okay.
Things to take away
I did not think she would even respond to my text because she was very lull in person but i had her laugh abit and she seemed generally relaxed and she kept complying every step of the way.
Sometimes just going for it is good even when your not sure.
Things I want to learn
I need to learn how to screen better for sexually compatible girls verbally. This semester I've been screening without screening, I guess its vibe, i want to learn how to verbalize it. I find girls that match my sexual style but it can always be a hit or a miss.
Goals
So far I've almost hit my goal of 10 girls by the end of the year and I can set my goals a lot higher. I have slept with 8 girls since August. 1 girl before i got to school and 7 since school and this only shows me i can do more because i only really started trying with girls at the end of the summer. So if i approach all year round instead of just after july I can do more. Also, my ankle was injured for quite some time so for a large portion of the start of the semester i just would go back to my room to stay off it. So make sure not to injure myself and stay out of my room more.
I am walking from a dinning hall where I had just ate by myself and chatted up a girl or two, generally I won't go out just to get girls but if i see one I may randomly spring into action or I may not. So after that interaction I was feeling pretty good and also warmed up. I was getting a lot of attention from the girls in the cafeteria but I don't know how to capitalize on it, any tips?
So back to me walking, I was walking up the hill and I spot a girl across the street that is about to cross to where I am, I notice her lipstick first, a cherry red and then I notice her figure, fucking curvy and sexy. I slow down a bit and she ends up on my sidewalk as I am reaching the crosswalk so we are right next to each other and I open. Now when I open i am all about being genuine in intentions and feelings so I usually just say what is on my mind and the way I deliver is usually like WoW look at you and I kind of go from there.
So I open this girl with a simple "Hey"
She responds with a "Hi"
I say "You're very fucking pretty, I'm Raqimus."
She responds "I'm Busgirl"
Now after this I don't have a plan and so i just start talking and changing topics until I can establish where I want things to go. So i ask her if she has a moment and she says she does but she is also running late for work. So we talk.
Now i don't remember the exact words but I can remember the topics, the vibe, and the flow of conversation. We talk about how i recognize her as in im a bit skeptical like "I totally know you from somewhere". Then she mentions she drives the buses and I'm like yea totally thats it, and then we move into her major and we chat about that. During this little chat I use strong eye contact, I'm relatively close to her, and I am very relaxed in my body. We both are smiling and I make her laugh because I am a silly sexual goose.So I use sexuality and sprinkle in humor because I like making people laugh and feel good. I am also speaking warmly with her and rather loudly because this girl is very quiet. I invite her to hangout with me but she says she has to work so i ask her if shed be down to hangout some other day this week, and she says sure. I try to set a date there but no go so i just say that we can figure things out later.
After I got her number I moved her away from the street while we were on the sidewalk towards the inner part and she followed but also seemed like she had to go so i gave her an opening to leave and we went our separate ways.
Now, I have found that hitting up a girl the same day has not worked for me so well in college, I have had not a lot of results with girls from cold approach or social circle it seems like I've done better at bars or parties. So even though I used to hit up girls the same day in the city I began trying to hit them up the next day and it begun with busgirl.
So i get down to the lobby and let her in and she was going to awkwardly go for a hug but i judo it into holding the door and i tell her ill give her a hug when we get inside because its cold. We get into the elevator and I hug her and we chat a bit and she mentions that she broke up with her boyfriend out of the blue, and i say its cool and she mentions that is why she is here.We go to my room take a shot then makeout and fuck. We have great sexual chemistry also I asked her why she fucked me and she said that one i was sexy and two my timing was good.So the next day I text
Me: Hey busgirl its Raqimus, today is pretty dreary, hows your day going so far?
Her:Hey what's up
Her:It's good, just got done with classes
Me: Nice! No classes is always a good thingWhat have you got planned for today?
Her:Yeah it is lol
Her: I'm pretty much just relaxing and then hanging out with friends tonight
Me:I'm probably gonna go out tonight, but right now I'm also just relaxing lol. When are you meeting up with your friends? Lets relax together till then
Her: But you hardly even know me lol
Her: What would we even do? (Here I take this as a question of intent and I respond to show my intent but to also check hers)
Me: That's the point
Her: Yeah I would say I'm caring lol
Her: I have a boyfriend but we're taking a break right now and I'm not really with him.. so maybe we could hangout
Me:I'm cool with that, lets hang and see where things go, no pressure. How's that sound?
Her: Okay yeah we could do that
Her: Tomorrow would be better though ( I resist the thought to ask her why because don't do it, if she wanted you to know shed tell you)
Me: Okay tomorrow can work, what time works for you, like 5pm or later?
Her:Yeah that works, im free after 4pm
Her:Where do you live?
Me:Okay ill text you around then and im in xxx in xx.
Her:Okay
So the next day rolls around and at 4:30ish i text her
Me: Hey, you can come over when your ready
Her: Sorry I should of texted you, I got called into work though :/
Me: Ouch, that sucks :/ well your welcome to by after work
It rolls around to 10pm and she texts me back
Her: Hey are you around?
Me: Yea currently at my room, you?
Her: Me too
Me: And where's that at?
Her: In xxx in xx
Her: Wanna hangout?
Me: Yes, currently my roomates here tho... He should be leaving soon. Is your place an option?
Her: Yeah it is but I can come over when he leaves though
Me: Okay ill text you when to come
Her: Okay
Her: How much longer (After 30 mins)
Me: Lol you can start ehading over now. He just left.
Me: Text me when your here
Her: WHich building is yours?
Her: I'm in xx now
Me: XX its the furthest in the corner Ill come down
Her:kk
Her:Here
We text a bit later on and i try to set up another hangout but she leaves me with a maybe and i move on. I end up buying booze later on in the week and see her on the bus and in the silence she mentions she got back with her boyfriend and i let her know Im cool with it that i can fuck her on the side, its whatever. She is very flirty and sexual, maybe I'll see her again but if not it is okay.
Things to take away
I did not think she would even respond to my text because she was very lull in person but i had her laugh abit and she seemed generally relaxed and she kept complying every step of the way.
Sometimes just going for it is good even when your not sure.
Things I want to learn
I need to learn how to screen better for sexually compatible girls verbally. This semester I've been screening without screening, I guess its vibe, i want to learn how to verbalize it. I find girls that match my sexual style but it can always be a hit or a miss.
Goals
So far I've almost hit my goal of 10 girls by the end of the year and I can set my goals a lot higher. I have slept with 8 girls since August. 1 girl before i got to school and 7 since school and this only shows me i can do more because i only really started trying with girls at the end of the summer. So if i approach all year round instead of just after july I can do more. Also, my ankle was injured for quite some time so for a large portion of the start of the semester i just would go back to my room to stay off it. So make sure not to injure myself and stay out of my room more.
