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Basic routine for club game

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Space Monkey
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Once in the club looking to approach girls and get laid, what should the goal be when one talks back?

Should you continue approaching to demonstrate higher value and get some more hooks, or should you try to escalate by hugging her?

Also, if you want to try a K close, is it alright to try to K close her on the forehead as it is tricky to aim for her lips with an increased probability of missing. I am still far from a K close and want to build up to it. Once you have K closed should you then get her phone number or insta? Or try to go home with her.

I can only afford a hotel room once per month, so I need to maximise the potential and I like my sleep so I want to have enough leads by 2am, or, ideally, a girl in my bed.
 

masked_energy

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Don’t talk much.
Just introduction and nothing more. Dance with her:
Grab her hand
Do the spin once or twice (the fuckin spin is so stupid but works)
After thr spin land her hand on your shoulder
If she’s still compliant she knows what’s going to happen
Dance with her body to body, get closer, touch her body
Lock in eye contact. She may also go for the kiss at this point.
If you need more confirmation grab her head gently and give it one sec. If compliant go for k.
Otherwise keep dancing, spinning, eyecontsct and then just go for the k. If she avoids k goodbye politely and go for the next one.
 

KJ Francis

Cro-Magnon Man
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Once in the club looking to approach girls and get laid, what should the goal be when one talks back?
building compliance and arousal - teasing, cold reading etc.

Should you continue approaching to demonstrate higher value and get some more hooks, or should you try to escalate by hugging her?
neither. you can hit-and-run, mingle and return, etc... but if she is engaged, stay in set, and once she shows a little interest, then start screening/qualifying her. like a "shallow dive" getting to know her a bit, rewarding her with your further interest in whats she's talking about, and through your body language.

then the goal is to get her to move with you somewhere.

I would not think about kissing her until you are seated alone with her. even then you may want to wait until until you've pulled her home to kiss.
 

KJ Francis

Cro-Magnon Man
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I would not think about kissing her until you are seated alone with her
unless you are @Fluxcapacitor lol he sometimes opens with a kiss

but as a beginner I would not be thinking about "kiss closes" and aiming to avoid a miss. I would only kiss her before the pull if she is obviously thinking about it, like looking at your lips
 

Rancorous

Space Monkey
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You wanna dance with her and then pull her away from the action to a quiter place and talk to her. This is difficult to do in clubs as everywhere in the club is loud. This is why I prefer bars or cocktail lounges. I talk about this in my pickup guide I wrote.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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