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Space Monkey
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“drop the bone.”

frequently a girl will drop the juiciest opportunity to switch the mode of the conversation to sexual in the guise of a frame test.

you can either:

make your point and avoid the discomfort

or

let yourself fall flat on your face and grab the bone she throws at you.

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There are times when girls will give you zero conversational outs—frame tests can be just frame tests, “just show me you can double down and strongly disagree with me.” But sometimes she can tell you’re uncomfortable not making your point and she offers you a thread of pussy in exchange for making yourself even more uncomfortable. “Show me that you’re awake enough to ride.”
 

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Space Monkey
space monkey
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Pretending to leave and then calling after you is a frame test as above. You need to break frame when breaking frame gets you a lay.
 

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Space Monkey
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This is a bit of an intermezzo.

If I don’t watch porn for nine days, my luck increases but my behavior becomes unpredictable.

I probably fell off the wagon basically the very beginning of this year.

My mom is very high anxiety and punishes unpredictable behavior so I am stuck in this loop of “self-regulating with porn,” although it’s not really self-regulating because in a vacuum I would be content with unpredictable behavior.

Moving out will put me in something more like a vacuum even if a perfect move-out situation is not available to us.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers
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