- Joined
- Jan 26, 2013
- Messages
- 707
Hey Gents,
Here's a quickie.
Today I was texting a girl I'm seeing and already fucked twice (immediately after party in my car then got her number and invited her over the next week) and I realized that I have this tendency that really does no good.
After the first time I fuck a girl, I maintain radio silence with her over text. I try to only text her to invite her over or a short text occasionally every 2-4 days to stay clear of auto-rejection issues. I'll generally tease girls with something sexual, and always related to our past experiences together (provided it was a good one) to get her thinking about me and we having sex - and then later suggest meeting again.
What I DIDN'T realize it's that it ALSO make me look like I'm thinking about it all the time. This was brought to my attention today by said girl.
In this case, the girl scratched my ENTIRE BACK. I mean HARD - I still have marks all over the place and it's been a couple of days since we had sex. So I was flirting with her about that and she said naively-but-shit-testing that "it's possible to note that you still think about that morning".
Thankfully in this case I fucked her so well that I know she couldn't stop thinking about it herself (she later admitted it and right after I dropped her home she sent me a text asking if I had liked it), but it made me realize that this kind of teasing had backfiring potential if this wasn't the case.
- BD
Here's a quickie.
Today I was texting a girl I'm seeing and already fucked twice (immediately after party in my car then got her number and invited her over the next week) and I realized that I have this tendency that really does no good.
After the first time I fuck a girl, I maintain radio silence with her over text. I try to only text her to invite her over or a short text occasionally every 2-4 days to stay clear of auto-rejection issues. I'll generally tease girls with something sexual, and always related to our past experiences together (provided it was a good one) to get her thinking about me and we having sex - and then later suggest meeting again.
What I DIDN'T realize it's that it ALSO make me look like I'm thinking about it all the time. This was brought to my attention today by said girl.
In this case, the girl scratched my ENTIRE BACK. I mean HARD - I still have marks all over the place and it's been a couple of days since we had sex. So I was flirting with her about that and she said naively-but-shit-testing that "it's possible to note that you still think about that morning".
Thankfully in this case I fucked her so well that I know she couldn't stop thinking about it herself (she later admitted it and right after I dropped her home she sent me a text asking if I had liked it), but it made me realize that this kind of teasing had backfiring potential if this wasn't the case.
- BD
