FR Beach instant date

[Dr.X]

This evening I go to the beach. In jogging clothes.

I pass a girl. This girl is blonde, and 22 years old. She's reading a book.

I fist bump, and she fist bump back.
Me: Nice, you look fun, now stand up
She stands up, “Who are you?” She asked
Me: I’m the son of the sea
Her (laugh)

Next I don't remember the exact conversation, but the gist of it is I and her role-playing son and daughter of the sea, sky and earth.
Then I invite her for a walk. We walk across the beach.

My hand is over her shoulder but no extra escalation. We talk a lot, mostly about growing up and dream. A few conversation snippets:
Her: I like children.
Me: I also like children ... the good one, that is.
Her: I like all children, both the good one and evil one. They teach me a lot about life.
Me: Back then you're a good one ... or evil one?
Her: I'm a good one.

We walk on the sand, later on I moves her to water to play, but I recognize that she doesn't have swim clothes, so I lead her to my place. Meanwhile I just fill conversations with topics like food, travel, and astrology.

On the way, she asks if I have any plan ... I say I don't have any.
^ Fucked up ... lack of leadership.

She asks if I want to go dancing with her, let's go tomorrow.
I just agree, and we part way.

Conclusion: I'm not good at date yet. Too clumsy, no plan. For now I'll forget about results and just going to 100 dates to practice.

 

[Derek da man]

Conclusion: I'm not good at date yet.

Don't beat yourself up - looks good to me

Too clumsy, no plan.

Made you look too easy but you could have get away with this if your frame had been solid. Fix the foundation and you'll get away with a lot more minor errors.

Still good though.

 

[Mr STIF]

You're doing good Man..

 

[Dr.X]

Thanks you for your kind words Derek and Stif.

Frame is important, true. I think about it and I framed the interaction as: “let’s not be serious and just have fun.” Though there could be better frame.