The girl ended up unfollowing me on instagram today, but looking back yesterday, after all of my sexual advances, she was still standing there, keeping the distance or space closed between us
Is what I did overkill or am I on the right track?
Would have gone into sex talk, but it’s a meet market venue bar where you can’t really hear the other person
R the approach Well done on the kino that’s ballsy.
yeah maybe pull it back .
That’s a bit strange re the unfollow. May suggest she felt u may be a creep or something (?)

maybe it was a bit too soon and she hasn’t signalled back she liked you firstly .
But,,, Yknow even if it’s a fail , it’s good to get into the habit of touching hot chicks where u can. At least it shows a guy is not afraid.
And she may tell another chick “ew he was so handsy” .. a chick who likes the look of you more and may think “ I’d like that”.
Maybe do a touch on the arm and let linger and work on your eye contract and face signals. The move it up in notches to an up and down body scan. (Let her catch u) and maybe another small innocuous touch somehow) then just keep watching her signals back for as long as u can stretch the interaction. Look for BL signs/signals her body is relaxing or if she’s showing it off somehow. Some chicks need a bit more comfort /fluff talk first. If she disengages then she doesn’t feel attraction and then that’s the end. But it’s not a “fail” of method. You’re just not her type. And how out gracefully. No harm no foul.
funny story from yesterday.(Saturday)
I bought a shmick new brown leather jacket on Friday and felt like sexy dude in it sat all dressed up. so headed to the city w intention to run some day approaches on some hotties to dust off some rust. I was eager to experiment with some flattery stuff as I’ve been posting it here.
I met a friend hadn’t seen for a while . We hit a Lounge I used to frequent doing pickup but it was a sausage fest I didn’t manage much interactions. We walked around the main shopping street and library green but between all the talk and laughs catching up with my buddy I didn’t do much opening. (Grrr) anyway, we went out to some bars later but all dead (very cold last nite ) so we ended up in a Strip Joint he’d been hanging out low key during the week and talking to all the girls. It was early and also very quiet.
there were only 2 girls. The first named Kendra came up and she knew my buddy from last visit, he opened the convo. she was very hot. Like a Maxim cover girl Nordic blonde. Very cute face and massive fake tits dressed up in a teddy and high heels.
Hourglass body and good ass.
She was towering up at about 6’ tall .
(Taller than me standing at bar,
Two of us either side and her standing between us.
When I could cut in the convo I made sure after a quick introduction to look her square in the eyes and say “ can I tell you something ? You are so amazingly-dazzlingly-GORGEOUS” and after her reply keep at it with “no, but seriously u are so CUTE tho”
I managed some little teasing about her height, “how tall are you without the heels ? “ 5’7” “ no way lol that’s funny.. ur standing over me wearing 6 inch heels haha that’s girl-game that is haha “blah blah.
She half knelt down to show us her real height . She tiny! Haha.
And touched her arm a few times during the interaction. I have to say tho as my friend was talking to her for a good few mins , as I stood there observing her , I felt my body slowly turning to concrete from the effects of her looks. It was a battle!
Women’s looks have a powerful effect.
we left, ate some food and came back an hour later.
A 2nd chick Sophie was sitting in a booth, saw us entering and approached us at bar,
She was cute faced and super busty but not the body of Kendra.
Anyways with her, I feel got some good stuff in, did the same flattery lines but really laid it on thick and got loads of strong face to face eye contact in, I was zooming in and out and she was doing all her best stripper /movie star style OTT flirting back. Making lots of orgasm open mouth “ooohs” was quite funny.
At various points I had my nose in her neck to “smell her sweet perfume”, my head resting on her massive rack, (ohhh mommy! I said), role player me as a student and her the headmistress, hand around her waist ,rubbing her arms.
all the whole giving her a LOT of locked in ‘face to face time’ eye contact, looking at her lips and zooming in and out with “ I can’t help it/ u have this effect on me/ stop / we shouldn’t /ur working!/ ur seducing me / stop pushing those big juicy MELONS in my face! “ blah blah and much as I could improv, I told her she looked like a ‘Bond Girl ‘quite a lot too. (She did
Was quite a laugh.
We sat in a booth and I stroked her pull ups stockings a few times. She asked me for a lap dance twice but I time delayed. I asked her HEAPS of stuff about Online Dating, how shit it is (she agreed) /how and when she uses it and who she swipes on/ and a big story from her about her worst date experience.
In the end I did not take a lap dance, I made an excuse to extract myself from the booth and joined my friend outside for a smoke. Then we just left.
is that “game?” IDK but I got her interest to some degree and it was super fun practice, she got some big laughs from me and nice versa. It’s be a fun pass the time type interaction for me as if was dead in the club,
I did notice all the other punters (about 5 dudes were all frozen solid standing with the chicks and all nervous and shy) so I was happy I did the opposite and got some practice in.
Bye bye my sweet Sophie! Haha
