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As I said in that post, I had managed to bring this cute woman in her 40s back to my place but we only made out as she resisted my attempts to bed her.
The next day she calls me at around 4 o' clock. She's a bit contradictory at the phone. She's very flirty but after talking a bit she says that she had been a bit naive the day before, that she's not interested in whatever I have to offer in the bedroom, which she doesn't doubt is great stuff, and that she's looking for a friend, somebody to hang out and talk with. I don't buy that s**t for a second.
I tell her, listen, there's this very cool place 5 minutes from my place, come her and let's have a chat. We decide to meet at 20:15. I arrive at 20:20 but she's not there yet. So I get inside, light me a cigarette and get me a glass of wine. She calls me telling me she's coming by taxi because she lost the metro. She arrives at around 20:30.
So we start talking and chatting about various kinds of stuff. Many of them are topics we had already covered the day before. At one point we start talking about the unconscious and about desires we often don't allow to express because of society's rules. Then she starts saying that she is not into casual sex, that she only was in committed relationships, and always with men either older or max 3-4 years younger than her (I am more than 15 years younger). I don't care about any of that. I keep on touching intimate topics and developing a connection. At one point I suggest we go eating something back at my place. She says no and suggests we go to a restaurant. I keep on suggesting my place: "I have plenty of stuff, and it's all free and restaurants around here aren't that great". At one point she agrees but makes that clear that we are not gonna have sex, just eating. I ignore that statement completely.
So we get to my place. We are in the kitchen. I am cooking, and she's listening to my music on my laptop. When she likes a song she gets up and starts dancing like crazy. Every now and then I dance a bit with her, re-establishing that physical contact we had built the day before. Then the food starts arriving, we're sitting at the table very close to each other. We're eating and talking. I start caressing her legs and back from time to time, recreating the situation from the day before. At one point she puts a rather romantic song. I go for the first kiss, she turns her head away, I persist and eventually she gives in. We kiss passionately for 2 minutes. I grab whatever we are eating and move to the sofa that has a small table in front of it. Bring my laptop with me. We eat and talk a bit. Now we are talking about movies. At one point she puts a song on and says: this one we have to dance. We dance again, closer than before.
At one point I do the same move as yesterday. I lift her and bring her to the bed. She resists a lot like the day before but I am much more persistent. I throw her on the bed and start kissing her all over. She says "slower". I slow down a bit, she starts relaxing on the bed. I meet resistance at any fundamental stage: taking her shirt and bra off, taking her pants off. But after that it's easy. We start doing some mutual oral sex and then we start banging and we keep at it for 3-4 hours.
After sex, when we're both dead lying on the bed she says "you know, after careful evaluation, I'd say that I like having a younger lover". "I told you so" I replied.
I accompany her at the door, make out last time and she says she wants to keep in touch. She' in town only until June, which probably means I can keep around for a while without fearing she'll become a burden. We'll see
A special tnx goes to ray_zorse. He answered my post quite quickly yesterday and made me realise that, contrary to what I was thinking, I wasn't really pushing enough and still being too gentle. That was the major difference between day 1 and day 2, I just ignored all shit tests and persisted. Later she actually even said that turned her on.
Cheers!
-Prehistoric
As I said in that post, I had managed to bring this cute woman in her 40s back to my place but we only made out as she resisted my attempts to bed her.
The next day she calls me at around 4 o' clock. She's a bit contradictory at the phone. She's very flirty but after talking a bit she says that she had been a bit naive the day before, that she's not interested in whatever I have to offer in the bedroom, which she doesn't doubt is great stuff, and that she's looking for a friend, somebody to hang out and talk with. I don't buy that s**t for a second.
I tell her, listen, there's this very cool place 5 minutes from my place, come her and let's have a chat. We decide to meet at 20:15. I arrive at 20:20 but she's not there yet. So I get inside, light me a cigarette and get me a glass of wine. She calls me telling me she's coming by taxi because she lost the metro. She arrives at around 20:30.
So we start talking and chatting about various kinds of stuff. Many of them are topics we had already covered the day before. At one point we start talking about the unconscious and about desires we often don't allow to express because of society's rules. Then she starts saying that she is not into casual sex, that she only was in committed relationships, and always with men either older or max 3-4 years younger than her (I am more than 15 years younger). I don't care about any of that. I keep on touching intimate topics and developing a connection. At one point I suggest we go eating something back at my place. She says no and suggests we go to a restaurant. I keep on suggesting my place: "I have plenty of stuff, and it's all free and restaurants around here aren't that great". At one point she agrees but makes that clear that we are not gonna have sex, just eating. I ignore that statement completely.
So we get to my place. We are in the kitchen. I am cooking, and she's listening to my music on my laptop. When she likes a song she gets up and starts dancing like crazy. Every now and then I dance a bit with her, re-establishing that physical contact we had built the day before. Then the food starts arriving, we're sitting at the table very close to each other. We're eating and talking. I start caressing her legs and back from time to time, recreating the situation from the day before. At one point she puts a rather romantic song. I go for the first kiss, she turns her head away, I persist and eventually she gives in. We kiss passionately for 2 minutes. I grab whatever we are eating and move to the sofa that has a small table in front of it. Bring my laptop with me. We eat and talk a bit. Now we are talking about movies. At one point she puts a song on and says: this one we have to dance. We dance again, closer than before.
At one point I do the same move as yesterday. I lift her and bring her to the bed. She resists a lot like the day before but I am much more persistent. I throw her on the bed and start kissing her all over. She says "slower". I slow down a bit, she starts relaxing on the bed. I meet resistance at any fundamental stage: taking her shirt and bra off, taking her pants off. But after that it's easy. We start doing some mutual oral sex and then we start banging and we keep at it for 3-4 hours.
After sex, when we're both dead lying on the bed she says "you know, after careful evaluation, I'd say that I like having a younger lover". "I told you so" I replied.
I accompany her at the door, make out last time and she says she wants to keep in touch. She' in town only until June, which probably means I can keep around for a while without fearing she'll become a burden. We'll see
A special tnx goes to ray_zorse. He answered my post quite quickly yesterday and made me realise that, contrary to what I was thinking, I wasn't really pushing enough and still being too gentle. That was the major difference between day 1 and day 2, I just ignored all shit tests and persisted. Later she actually even said that turned her on.
Cheers!
-Prehistoric
