Beginner's progress - Lack of something important

[mikep08]

Over the past few days, I decided to make more approaches. I'm gonna report two of them that made an impact on what am I missing.

1st: Inside the bus, waiting to arrive to my destination I spot a blondie with an elegant fashion style (she looked like a french gal). Decided to open her, by saying that she has a unique sense of style, which she smiled to that. After some basic questions and chat I decided to take her digits. She refused and wanted to give me her Instagram instead, which I took. Next day I text her and she is not much investing in texting.

2nd: While waiting for a haircut appointment, I see a cute face waiting for the bus. I asked her of the bus takes time to arrive and then her name which she gave it. But after some small talk, I asked her what does she studies, she says that she has to answer to her friend. But while she answers she goes away!

I feel like that I have to make girls invest in the conversation, because I always want to talk but I only get small answers from them or none and then I get bored which sucks.

 

[COCPORN]

Hey, Mikey Mike.

What you are writing about is so thoroughly described in the literature of pickup that it is hard to understand where you want people to even start to contribute.

I know what you are doing and I know what you are doing wrong. You are plowing in a setting where plowing is uncalled for.

It is hard to understand the body of knowledge in the area, as it is huge. And it is hard to understand how to speak to people in a "natural" way.

Give the conversations time to breathe.

 

[Tony D]

There's just not enough information to make an accurate appraisal of your situation. You could record it and ask someone to listen to your approaches.

 

[Sub-Zero]

With the first chick and for others, don’t take any of their social media, don’t be a fan, the only way to really succeed with that is to have a good one that shows off fancy shit.

I’ve had girls try that a few times with me, and I tell them I don’t use it, then I get the number, if they like you, you’ll get the number no problem.

Chick 2 probably wasn’t interested, and take this advice from me because I had to kind of discover this on my own....

Some girls just aren’t interested and you did nothing wrong.

This is a numbers game, remember that.

If you want girls to invest more, work on your fundamentals and game more, read the articles on here and practice.