Being a Challenge to Women

[Dern]

Just read Chase's article on Being a Challenge to Women

I just wanted to ask a question regarding it...

So when a girl is acting aloof towards you, that means you are lower in perceived status than her. Therefore you: do you respond by acting aloof as well or respond by deep diving and qualifying her?

 

[PrettyDecent]

Check out this article, Dern - https://www.girlschase.com/content/what- ... z2MGEm7snE. The whole article is relevant, but this part in particular -

Any time a girl acts superior, or acts rude, or acts aloof, pull this tool out of your tool belt and put it to use.
If:

• She says something challenging or rude to you
• She gives you a very tepid response and contributes too little
• She lets herself be pulled away by someone else into another conversation
• She gives you too many go-nowhere answers to your early questions without asking anything back or engaging you further

... you can do this. And the deeper you are into the interaction, the more likely she is to reengage you.

When she does, you simply respond slowly, with a warm-but-absentminded smile on your face, as if being woken up from a dream.

"Huh? Oh, right... you. Hi."

That's the feeling behind it.

Careful about qualifying - it increases whatever behavior she was doing before!

Hopefully that helps!

Nick