Being a Mean Drunk

[MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla]

I’m a mean drunk, I’m noticing more and more that all the suddenly I am not willing to take shit.

I had somebody budge in line the other day, I called them an ugly dog, and they had some white knight say “You didn’t have to call them an ugly dog” to which I replied, I said what I was thinking” and left it at that.

Why did this two year time skip decide to make me an angrier man? What happened in two years of seduction where guille and sex talk seems to be a topic that doesn’t matter. I’m blowing through ASD and cutting into the heart of these people.

Is anybody else finding themselves towards a savaged meaner game?

 

[Rain]

Have you always been a mean drunk, or is it a recent thing?

 

[Searcher]

I had somebody budge in line the other day, I called them an ugly dog, and they had some white knight say “You didn’t have to call them an ugly dog” to which I replied, I said what I was thinking” and left it at that.

One option was to tell "Hey, no cutting in the line. You have to follow the rules like everyone else".


Getting aggressive will make you feel powerful but it can be turned against you and make you seem like someone who has no control over his emotions (I used to get aggressive when people try to do push me around and still do sometimes but when there are socially aware and manipulative people around its a not a good idea).

When you get aggressive at people's mistakes it's like you are hand delivering the weapons to a losing party to shoot at you.


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[MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla]

One option was to tell "Hey, no cutting in the line. You have to follow the rules like everyone else".


Getting aggressive will make you feel powerful but it can be turned against you and make you seem like someone who has no control over his emotions (I used to get aggressive when people try to do push me around and still do sometimes but when there are socially aware and manipulative people around its a not a good idea).

When you get aggressive at people's mistakes it's like you are hand delivering the weapons to a losing party to shoot at you.


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Yeah I see what you are saying and even more on the dot with the socially manipulative.

Do we see a way that being angry can be advantageous? I do have a great strength in getting pissed off

Thanks for the insight, I’ll post again if I see another situation similar.

MuSt0

 

[Searcher]

Do we see a way that being angry can be advantageous? I do have a great strength in getting pissed off

Advantage can be in situations where you are in a one on one interaction (without people around who can affect your social reputation in some way).

Also it mostly works with people who are
(1) mentally weak doormat kind of people.
(2) have reached a high level of compliance with you, as in gaining your approval kind of thing.

best to derive strength from something else other than anger. Whenever I start to get pissed of I recognize it and take more time in responding.

 

[MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla]

I had a situation

Advantage can be in situations where you are in a one on one interaction (without people around who can affect your social reputation in some way).

Also it mostly works with people who are
(1) mentally weak doormat kind of people.
(2) have reached a high level of compliance with you, as in gaining your approval kind of thing.

best to derive strength from something else other than anger. Whenever I start to get pissed of I recognize it and take more time in responding.

Think about it like this moment, there will always be people who can affect your social reputation. Always somebody aiming to bite at your heels, it’s the world with the way it is. It’s so anti male anti game that it tries it best to stand against men with game.

Yeah at some point you have to stand up for yourself. The game says a lot of stuff but if you are there standing up for yourself you will always be in the right as far as I’m concerned

 

[Searcher]

Yeah at some point you have to stand up for yourself. The game says a lot of stuff but if you are there standing up for yourself you will always be in the right as far as I’m concerned

I don't see the necessity of swearing/emotional reaction for standing up for yourself.

However I do agree that standing up for oneself is much better than doing nothing, whatever the way for it maybe.

It’s so anti male anti game that it tries it best to stand against men with game

I like to see it as an advantage, this anti-game thing will make many men afraid to put time into developing game which will make men with game much rarer and hence even more valuable.

Kind of like how gold is valuable because it's so rare.