Being cold, distant, and unreceptive towards girls that are your type.

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I am sure we all have a type but for my thread I mean more in terms of appearance so whether it be a hot blonde, a hot dark haired beauty, a hot Latina, or whatever type.

At the same time I notice that I have not had the best experiences with my "type" which is typically a hot white girl with dark or brown hair along with a light skin (so think certain Slavic women and women with that stereotypical Wonder Woman). I have a really good experience with blondes, gingers, and women that are not white (Latinas are a toss up though) but this is the type I get a lot of bad experiences from.

My theory is that since I am a darker skinned guy, these sorts of women are rude to me. Unlike a blonde or redhead who might be partial to a guy with my look, these kinds of women want someone who is whiter than them since they themselves are insecure about their whiteness or being perceived as white.

I've been wondering ever since I read this book called 48 Laws Of Power, it says in one chapter to "disdain things you can't have". I thought about it and tying it into game as well.

How would it work out if instead of gaming women who are your type but you have had bad luck with, you intentionally remained distant and cold towards them?

 

[matteo-d]

Women attracted

My theory is that since I am a darker skinned guy, these sorts of women are rude to me. Unlike a blonde or redhead who might be partial to a guy with my look, these kinds of women want someone who is whiter than them since they themselves are insecure about their whiteness or being perceived as white.

Seriously ?
I'm sorry but this one made me laugh

It's all in your head, they seem to be more difficult to attract because YOU are putting a lot more pressure on yourself with those types of women. If you were treating them as any other woman you meet, then they would be easy to have.

People always react based on the vibe you give off. If you put them on huge pedestal in your head, they are going to react like princesses, because that's how you picture them, the world is always a mirror, it reflects what you think.

Just imagine them having their period, being whistled at in the streets like animals... And you will realize they are no different, they have the same problems than any other woman and are still human. When your perception of them changes, it will become easy to get them.

 

[naturalmikey]

becoming cold and distant can be an effective long term strategy. however, in the initial interaction her investment is to low to care if you go in cold and distant. she just won’t be open to you. once you’ve developed a relationship goin cold and distant could make her chase you as long as it’s not for an extended period of time, in which she’ll lose interest. once she has lost interest if you show interest there is a high probability you’re going to look needy.

 

[naturalmikey]

also girls baseline socialization is very high. o wouldn’t try to play games with girls if you haven’t yourself reached a high level of socialization. you’re really opening yourself up to get hurt.

 

[Fuck This]

Maybe if you were actually a LIKEABLE guy women would give you attention?

Do a reading assignment....https://www.cracked.com/blog/5-simple-s ... l-asshole/