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i currently have a really amazing girl i’m seeing. it seems to be going in the boyfriend girlfriend direction. there is no good reason to not be happy about the situation. she’s my type, the beachy blonde type. she lives on the beach at an amazing spot. she’s young (25) compared to me but i’m older (38) and generally prefer younger than her. she’s also thin and attractive. not super hot but a seven. she’s crazy about me and wants to be my girlfriend.
the issue is i’m not crazy passionate about her. but those crazy passionate relationships usually turn toxic quickly in my experience. any regular guy would be stoked. we’re a good fit. i’m not super trusting but as far as chciks go she’s probably about as trustworthy as they get.
my question has anyone been in an experience like this and decided to just ride it out and see how it goes. part of it feels like i’m settling. but again the crazy passionate relationships with hotter girls go bad quickly. part of me thinks relationships and monogamy are bullshit but part of me also wants that. i’m at a crossroads and interested to hear others experiences.
the issue is i’m not crazy passionate about her. but those crazy passionate relationships usually turn toxic quickly in my experience. any regular guy would be stoked. we’re a good fit. i’m not super trusting but as far as chciks go she’s probably about as trustworthy as they get.
my question has anyone been in an experience like this and decided to just ride it out and see how it goes. part of it feels like i’m settling. but again the crazy passionate relationships with hotter girls go bad quickly. part of me thinks relationships and monogamy are bullshit but part of me also wants that. i’m at a crossroads and interested to hear others experiences.