Being from out of town, how can I work this in?

[randy__bobandy]

Hello gents,

In a few weeks, I'll be visiting my friend at his university in another state, and I'll be staying there the weekend. We're planning on going to a few parties. Naturally, I can't invite a girl back to my place unless she's down for a 4 hour ride back to my apartment.

Does being an out-of-towner lend itself at all to sleeping with a girl on the same night? If so, how would you approach the situation?

-Randy Bobandy

 

[Franco]

Randy,

Does being an out-of-towner lend itself at all to sleeping with a girl on the same night? If so, how would you approach the situation?

It sure does! As a matter of fact, I would call it an advantage. If you think about it, the girl has a chance to sleep with some (hopefully) super sexy guy and doesn't have to worry about that guy knowing any of her friends or close social circle. It's a nice little "slip away for some fun and excitement" without all the repercussions that might come with having to see that guy the next day at school and him being an asshole (or bragging) about it.

As far as approaching the situation, this part is up to you to accomplish. If your friend is chill and knows you're looking to get laid, you might just want to plan out your designated "private sex area" beforehand with him. You can even ask him if you can use his dorm room for a specified time, but you have to make sure you stick to his rules about it.

If this isn't a viable option, you have two more:

• 1) Find a place to escalate before you go to the party. This can be an outdoor, public area that is very hidden and obviously has little-to-no human traffic, or it can even be your car (if you are bringing it)! Just make sure to find a place that you can escalate -- remember, it doesn't have to be a room, and it doesn't even have to have a bed!
  
  2) Go to the girl's place. One of the advantages of being an out-of-towner is that the girl knows you don't have your own place to stay for the night, so if she's really into you, you can simply ask her, "so do you live on campus somewhere?" And then escalate the conversation toward heading back to her place to "after-party" (or whatever excuse you want to come up with).

Hope this helps!

- Franco

 

[randy__bobandy]

Thanks for the response Franco

Randy,

If you think about it, the girl has a chance to sleep with some (hopefully) super sexy guy

Hhaha, well I wouldnt consider myself super sexy, I'm pretty good looking though

You can even ask him if you can use his dorm room for a specified time, but you have to make sure you stick to his rules about it.

He lives in a small dorm room, literally the only place to sleep with someone would be the floor or his bed. So like you mentioned it's probably easier to make it to the girls place.

He is part of a co-ed frat who have weekly parties, so I should have no shortage of girls lol

Hope this helps!

It absolutely does, thank you