Long-Term Being "the man"

[Whizzy]

As I've found myself in a longterm relationship with a beautiful girl lately I've realized a couple of things. The most important being that it really is up to the man in order to be the guide and to steer the relationship in the right way. This is all part of being a man though, being someone dominant that others want to follow. Even normally dramatic girls will cause minimal drama in a relationship with the right man/proper expectations set...not to say she still wont cause drama with other people in her life!

 

[dcl]

Hello Whizzy.

I don't think you could be any more truthful in your post here. I agree with you.

I would have to say that not being the leader in past relationships of mine has been the main factor in contributing to the relationships' eventual end.

I didn't have any tools for handling and deterring bad behaviour (drama) and I was not as dominant as I should have been during any number of the situations and experiences that someone might have with their girlfriend/girlfriends.

Thanks for sharing. -dcl