Being Ticklish - Sign of Inexperience?

[BarryS1]

After having sex with my FWB, she asked why I always wanted to be the dominant one in bed. I am ticklish and fidget/laugh like crazy when a girl:

-rubs my chest/side/stomach/legs
-licks my balls
-kisses my neck

She said that being ticklish could be a sign of not being touched (aka sexual inexperience) and will probably desensitize overtime. To save the night, I framed it by saying I'm always the dominant one and kept plowing

Will have more sex desensitize my ticklishness? I've only had 5 girls and sex 15 total times.

 

[Mr. oblivious]

not sure what FWB stands for but i assume you have rooted this girl on more than one occasion and will continue to root her for some while so i suggest letting her be dominant of a session or two.

Because often you may find out things she like etc. or find out her fetishes or something when she want to be dominant.

 

[Thedoctor]

Barry,

I don't think your sensitivity level in certain parts of your body has anything to do with your lack of experience. Some people just react differently to different stimulus. Girls react very differently in certain areas also, particularly the nipples and ears. Some girls are into it, others are not. Some want their nipples sucked, or bitten, or just completely left alone. That's just a person's body.

Your inexperience might show depending on how you react when a girl does something you don't like. If you start giggling like a little school girl if she licks your balls, then that might not come off as the most experienced, or even attractive, reaction.

Personally, I hate "light" touching. You know, when a girl runs a single finger down your spine and what not. Given time, I'll start giggling like a school girl if she keeps doing it. So Instead, I tell her "enough of this light touching crap. Grab at me more passionately like this." Followed by me pulling her into me forcefully. So even though I am ticklish, I still convey that I'm experienced because I properly express and display what I want her to do.

Give it a try next time and see how it works out for ya,
-John

 

[BarryS1]

Your inexperience might show depending on how you react when a girl does something you don't like. If you start giggling like a little school girl if she licks your balls, then that might not come off as the most experienced, or even attractive, reaction.

HAHA! That's exactly what's been happening - it's not even sexy. I avoid blow jobs altogether now incase a girl does something weird like pull my leghair, grab my butt, ect.

Personally, I hate "light" touching. You know, when a girl runs a single finger down your spine and what not. Given time, I'll start giggling like a school girl if she keeps doing it. So Instead, I tell her "enough of this light touching crap. Grab at me more passionately like this." Followed by me pulling her into me forcefully. So even though I am ticklish, I still convey that I'm experienced because I properly express and display what I want her to do.

Cool idea, just stop the action and show your preferences for something else. In fact, the girl has been doing something similar to me, "I don't really like that, try this."

Thanks John!