I've been dating a girl for a couple months, she's really into me but I'm not into her that much. Kinda pisses me off actually bc she's 10 years younger than me and is super cute, down to earth, etc but I can't help that I'm just not feeling it. Her friend I would guess is pretty close to my age, has similar interests from what I can tell, is a pretty hot blonde and someone I can see settling down with. There's 2 kickers to this, one is that they're both very religious (I would assume higher morals / ethics / higher guards and defenses overall), and the other kicker is the one I'm dating now...I'm her first boyfriend, and she's too good of a person for me to have her hurt in this process. A big group of people (including me and her friend) are supposed to be taking a trip together in a month, I figured then I could get to know her better and figure out if I would pull the trigger on this. Anyone have any good strategies for this or successful field reports involving a transition over into dating the friend without much despair from the ex?
Figured if anything I'll just say Jesus demanded that I break up with her and date her friend.
Figured if anything I'll just say Jesus demanded that I break up with her and date her friend.
