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Like many smart people out there, after the mandates hit, I left NYC. Now the skyrocketing crime rate, social and racial tensions which got worse after the pandemic, and also rents that went back up as things were getting "back to normal" had me leaving. I got sick and tired of how annoying New Yorkers became about being pro-mask and pro-vaccine and could no longer stand to be around them. Maybe one day I do go back but I have started to notice a trend in my circle.
I noticed that a lot of the people I partied with and then kept in touch with through social media have left NYC. Given that remote work has become the norm, I am seeing that more and more people are avoiding NYC even out of college now. I don't think NYC will remain a top city to meet women in 5 years from now given how things are going with mandates, a sh1tshow of a government, skyrocketing crime, high cost of living, and rise of remote work.
A couple of months ago, I went to Tampa and was amazed by the talent in the city. Tampa had almost as many hot girls I ran into that one night that Manhattan did. Now I am in South Florida and there is no drop off in talent either. It does seem like I noticed a trend when following women over social media who moved out of NYC. The ones who were tied down with a BF moved to Denver (ugh, blue state still) and Salt Lake City or any place with a good outdoor scene.
For the ones who remained single, it seems like all of them moved to bigger cities in red states without a lot of restriction.
Miami
Charleston
Tampa
Dallas (weirdly enough)
Nashville
and Kansas City
I talked to some of them too and they flat out said that NYC shutting down during the pandemic made them flee. When it came time to come back, some said that work was the main reason they were there and now that it can be done remote, they don't see the reason to be in NYC.
If I had it my way, I hope NYC does come back and doesn't implement any of the vaccine passport and totalitarian government BS but given how rotten the politics have become, I have my doubts.
Now I wonder if men looking to game should be thinking about cities in red states with minimal restrictions because it seems like a lot of women are pouring in there.
I noticed that a lot of the people I partied with and then kept in touch with through social media have left NYC. Given that remote work has become the norm, I am seeing that more and more people are avoiding NYC even out of college now. I don't think NYC will remain a top city to meet women in 5 years from now given how things are going with mandates, a sh1tshow of a government, skyrocketing crime, high cost of living, and rise of remote work.
A couple of months ago, I went to Tampa and was amazed by the talent in the city. Tampa had almost as many hot girls I ran into that one night that Manhattan did. Now I am in South Florida and there is no drop off in talent either. It does seem like I noticed a trend when following women over social media who moved out of NYC. The ones who were tied down with a BF moved to Denver (ugh, blue state still) and Salt Lake City or any place with a good outdoor scene.
For the ones who remained single, it seems like all of them moved to bigger cities in red states without a lot of restriction.
Miami
Charleston
Tampa
Dallas (weirdly enough)
Nashville
and Kansas City
I talked to some of them too and they flat out said that NYC shutting down during the pandemic made them flee. When it came time to come back, some said that work was the main reason they were there and now that it can be done remote, they don't see the reason to be in NYC.
If I had it my way, I hope NYC does come back and doesn't implement any of the vaccine passport and totalitarian government BS but given how rotten the politics have become, I have my doubts.
Now I wonder if men looking to game should be thinking about cities in red states with minimal restrictions because it seems like a lot of women are pouring in there.

