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Best hail mary text to get a response?

Bob Z

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sometimes i'll get a girls number and the approach was ok. a lukewarm lead - where i messed up somewhere, she doesn't respond to icebreaker and i get a general sense that she's unlikely to reply. obviously the solution is better approach - but when i have these numbers and dont want to just not text, what is the best hail mary to just get a response so i can try to move things forward?

ideas i had:
1. invitation to party high-value event
2. gunwitch signature line "i just thought of who you look like"

does anyone have any thoughts on this? would be good to just have a stock hail mary text for these type of numbers
 
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rockstar

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1. Event invitation
2. Curiosity bait “I have a question for you”. (Even more important is following it with something engaging). You know what made me change my mind about you on our date”. Etc.
3. Something relevant to her that she will respond to (for example a meaningful comment on a new song by her favorite artist. Or a TikTok that you know will get a reaction from her)

You can also just wait if she’s being unresponsive. Keep her around on ig. Or even ping her once in a blue moon to try to catch her when she’s bored and has too much time on her hands
 

DrippyMoonKnight

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Like you said, your time is better spent approaching and getting new leads than trying to reheat cold leads. But once in a while, you can send a resurrection text if you push her away a little bit. Think of 'Arousal' in Chase's CAS model. Make sure to wait at least two days after she didn't reply so you don't send a "back-to-back text".


* I saw you [activity she likes] with another guy! We are getting divorced, call
the lawyer, you can keep the cat ;)
* I found out about you with the pool boy, so I’ve cheated too with the nanny. Let’s move
on by getting a drink together...
* Have you been kidnapped?! Tell them I’ll pay the ransom...
* LOL, have you been turned into a cat? I just saw one that looked exactly like you
* How are you future ex wife? I’ve handed in the divorce papers, there’s still time to talk it
through over that drink on Tuesday...
* Just saw someone that looks like you coming out of a karaoke bar...!
* My secretary has crossed you out of the diary. Shall I tell her to give you a second
chance?!
* Let’s skip the nouns and get straight to the verbs....when are you free?!
 

Chase

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I got a chuckle out of some of those @DrippyMoonKnight posted.

@Bob Z, don't forget, texting is not your only option:



Or, if you must stick to texts, you can always wait a little while and try sending a resurrection text... although if she never replied in the first place your odds aren't great, so I would still recommend one of the options above (or one of the others @rockstar and MoonKnight suggested).

Chase
 

Skills

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sometimes i'll get a girls number and the approach was ok. a lukewarm lead - where i messed up somewhere, she doesn't respond to icebreaker and i get a general sense that she's unlikely to reply. obviously the solution is better approach - but when i have these numbers and dont want to just not text, what is the best hail mary to just get a response so i can try to move things forward?

ideas i had:
1. invitation to party high-value event
2. gunwitch signature line "i just thought of who you look like"

does anyone have any thoughts on this? would be good to just have a stock hail mary text for these type of numbers
I think you have the wrong idea, you need to have better interactions, vs shit interactions and thinking a hail marry text will save the day... 1 and 2 low odds in my opinion.... Better interactions is what i would focus on.... The goal of a hail marry is when you go back and forth on a girl that you were texting and she all of sudden ghosts or semi ghost....

so open>she responds>you banter>she ghost or stop responding = some guys use hail marry (see the context)

is not shit interaction>send ice breaker>she never responds> hail marry = this is not the context you have nothing from the go....

to try to invite to a party or i just thought of who you look like (by the way that is not how gun use that or the purpose or the context jesus)

the gun opener you are referring is "you look like my ex but you have different energy in your eyes" something like this is an opener not a hail marry brah!

invitation to high value party is not a hail marry... and to do that from a girl not responding to opener wont work waste of time and number...

I would advice you to get better at cold approach try to forget numbers unless a strong interaction...

once the strong interaction learn how to text a bit.... (i have many guides with samples go in my archives) nothing will not work without at least somewhat a good interaction...
 
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