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Background
What's up guys!
I decided to post one FR from my journal here every week. I realize most people don't read journals (I don't either) so this way I hope to get some input and guide lines.
I try to model my game generally after @Teevster articles on girls chase. Lately I went through his series on hooking and calibration, reading my way through sexual tension right now. I also read this forum obviously and watch some youtube pu videos here and there, so this may affect me subconsciously.
FR
I had some stuff to do the next morning but I still wanted to go out, so I had 2h on my disposal (22.00 - 00.00ish).
Dressed in converse platforms, black skinny jeans, black over shirt, black matrix looking leather jacket and a black beanie, listening to Nine Inch Nails I ventured out.
Got to the bar, took a sit and wanted to take care of some stuff on my phone. The group by the next table had a girl talking loudly about some book that is very old and who knows what could've really happened. Funny enough just before I went out I was thinking about the symbolism of Jesus's crucifixion. This must be the weirdest opener so far...
DG: ''You're talking about the bible, right?''
HB: ''Yes, how did you know?''
DG: ''You're speaking loud and very passionate and I was just thinking about it before I headed out..''
Then basically told my theory that why crucifixion is a perfect symbolism for redemption. In psychology trauma is transferable from person to person, so people who aren't emotionally mature keep the negative energy going around. Someone must absorb it. And then comes Jesus, sacrificing himself and absorbing all of humanity sins. A good representation of a saviour and I get the teaching about ''learn to love your enemies'' now.
Fucking weirdest opener so far I know, but it worked. Then we talked briefly about this, the girl was all activist about the church being a bad institution, which I agreed but that wasn't my point really.
Then just left it there, wanted to get those things on my phone done, but she involved me back in.
HB: ''So mystery bible guy, what's your name? Or write your instagram here, and I will add you later''
She was interested somehow (just HB from here on). I took a seat by their table. There were 2 other girls, one not hot, one fuckable, but not my type really (HBSpain from here on), another chubby and 2 guys.
I talked to the guy, the chubby girl, because they were the closest to me and the easiest to talk to in a loud environment. HB looked at me a couple times and I just waited for the opportunity to strike.
Then we went out for a smoke. There I could finally finish the stuff on my phone, then turned to HB and one guy who were in a conversation. Used some body rocking to get closer to her, observed our body language (how our feet were pointed).
Note to self: You can get easily closer to her with body rocking, but turning your body away from her, so you get closer to her but facing her half way or even less. Then after a moment you turn and there you are, almost face to face, if you want to.
I noticed she had 2 tattoos of triangles, one on her ring finger and one on her ear, which I could later use for compliance tests. She and the guy were talking about some vegan activistic topics in which I didn't want to get involved. Or bothered. When they finished, she asked me for a cigarette, gave her the whole box, said ''sorry, I'm to lazy to open it haha'' and then she started asking me what do I do and stuff. We bonded on our music taste (Radiohead are fucking great).
Then a short rutine I used to have... must use this more often:
If you could pick one time in history and live there for whatever amount of time you would like, which would you choose? - You can let her have her fantasy then when she asks you, you get into decadent stuff. A lot of time periods with debauchery going on, pick your favorite...
It was just us talking this last 5min and the guy was a bit excluded now. Then we finished our smokes and went back inside. HB needed to use the bathroom and I took her chair. This way I locked myself in fully into the group and I knew she wouldn't protest.
I talked to HBSpain, I sat near her. She asked me about my age and I came up with a cool role play... Remembered Interview With A Vampire (cool movie, recomend it btw) and played the roll. I'm a 256 year old vampire from a colonial Morocco back in the days. Of course made the delivery longer, she had to ask me questions about it. Then she said this is kinda hot. YES, this is what I'm going for! She asked me what was my favorite century, or time, I said that just before industrial revolution in decadent Paris, me and the boys loved sipping on absinthe and picking up upper class madamoiselle's later to drink their blood. Asked her if she's not afraid of me, I could drink her blood as well later. Said no, that she has bad blood (I think she said her being a diabetic or something). I jokingly made a face of disgust and she laughed.
Then we went for another smoke just me HBSpain and HB. They were hungry and went to a pizza place nearby and I finished my cigarette outside. It was already 23.30 so I decided to rather go home after I say goodbye to HB and tell her to contact me.
I went to the pizza place, told them I'm going to go, have stuff to do tomorrow morning, but that she should follow me and we could meet up tomorrow when we're all drunk and can be drunk together. She of course agreed. I hope I wrote my ig into her phone correctly though... What a retard I am haha...
She asked me if I remember her name, of course I did then asked her if she remembered mine. Of course she didn't (she was tipsy). Then told her I have 2 more questions for her, then I'll have to leave.
1. Whats up with triangles? She explained and I got a chance to hold her hand and shortly caress it. She kinda offered me to touch her ear as well but I didn't, don't know why... Maybe better for the social frame.
2. How old am I. Then wen't into the vampire role play and made it even sexier ''we can meet tomorrow and I can drink your blood'' then she told me she's 30 ''I've been with older than you'' and ''I like young blood''. Crazy how much you can get away with under this role play frame.
Then I hugged her goodbye... It was interesting, because I gave her a half hug to see her response, then she hugged me back and I stayed like that and she leaned into me and hugged me more. Maybe I'm over analising here, but I think this was a non verbal disqualifier.... chase frame?
Gave HBSpain a high five and went home.
Aftermath
She did follow me in the next day afternoon. I was out in the evening and dm'd her around midnight ''u our?'' ''what mischief are you up to'' but she didn't respond, didn't even seen the texts. I may text her again next week if there won't be any other good opportunities that grab my attention.
What's up guys!
I decided to post one FR from my journal here every week. I realize most people don't read journals (I don't either) so this way I hope to get some input and guide lines.
I try to model my game generally after @Teevster articles on girls chase. Lately I went through his series on hooking and calibration, reading my way through sexual tension right now. I also read this forum obviously and watch some youtube pu videos here and there, so this may affect me subconsciously.
FR
I had some stuff to do the next morning but I still wanted to go out, so I had 2h on my disposal (22.00 - 00.00ish).
Dressed in converse platforms, black skinny jeans, black over shirt, black matrix looking leather jacket and a black beanie, listening to Nine Inch Nails I ventured out.
Got to the bar, took a sit and wanted to take care of some stuff on my phone. The group by the next table had a girl talking loudly about some book that is very old and who knows what could've really happened. Funny enough just before I went out I was thinking about the symbolism of Jesus's crucifixion. This must be the weirdest opener so far...
DG: ''You're talking about the bible, right?''
HB: ''Yes, how did you know?''
DG: ''You're speaking loud and very passionate and I was just thinking about it before I headed out..''
Then basically told my theory that why crucifixion is a perfect symbolism for redemption. In psychology trauma is transferable from person to person, so people who aren't emotionally mature keep the negative energy going around. Someone must absorb it. And then comes Jesus, sacrificing himself and absorbing all of humanity sins. A good representation of a saviour and I get the teaching about ''learn to love your enemies'' now.
Fucking weirdest opener so far I know, but it worked. Then we talked briefly about this, the girl was all activist about the church being a bad institution, which I agreed but that wasn't my point really.
Then just left it there, wanted to get those things on my phone done, but she involved me back in.
HB: ''So mystery bible guy, what's your name? Or write your instagram here, and I will add you later''
She was interested somehow (just HB from here on). I took a seat by their table. There were 2 other girls, one not hot, one fuckable, but not my type really (HBSpain from here on), another chubby and 2 guys.
I talked to the guy, the chubby girl, because they were the closest to me and the easiest to talk to in a loud environment. HB looked at me a couple times and I just waited for the opportunity to strike.
Then we went out for a smoke. There I could finally finish the stuff on my phone, then turned to HB and one guy who were in a conversation. Used some body rocking to get closer to her, observed our body language (how our feet were pointed).
Note to self: You can get easily closer to her with body rocking, but turning your body away from her, so you get closer to her but facing her half way or even less. Then after a moment you turn and there you are, almost face to face, if you want to.
I noticed she had 2 tattoos of triangles, one on her ring finger and one on her ear, which I could later use for compliance tests. She and the guy were talking about some vegan activistic topics in which I didn't want to get involved. Or bothered. When they finished, she asked me for a cigarette, gave her the whole box, said ''sorry, I'm to lazy to open it haha'' and then she started asking me what do I do and stuff. We bonded on our music taste (Radiohead are fucking great).
Then a short rutine I used to have... must use this more often:
If you could pick one time in history and live there for whatever amount of time you would like, which would you choose? - You can let her have her fantasy then when she asks you, you get into decadent stuff. A lot of time periods with debauchery going on, pick your favorite...
It was just us talking this last 5min and the guy was a bit excluded now. Then we finished our smokes and went back inside. HB needed to use the bathroom and I took her chair. This way I locked myself in fully into the group and I knew she wouldn't protest.
I talked to HBSpain, I sat near her. She asked me about my age and I came up with a cool role play... Remembered Interview With A Vampire (cool movie, recomend it btw) and played the roll. I'm a 256 year old vampire from a colonial Morocco back in the days. Of course made the delivery longer, she had to ask me questions about it. Then she said this is kinda hot. YES, this is what I'm going for! She asked me what was my favorite century, or time, I said that just before industrial revolution in decadent Paris, me and the boys loved sipping on absinthe and picking up upper class madamoiselle's later to drink their blood. Asked her if she's not afraid of me, I could drink her blood as well later. Said no, that she has bad blood (I think she said her being a diabetic or something). I jokingly made a face of disgust and she laughed.
Then we went for another smoke just me HBSpain and HB. They were hungry and went to a pizza place nearby and I finished my cigarette outside. It was already 23.30 so I decided to rather go home after I say goodbye to HB and tell her to contact me.
I went to the pizza place, told them I'm going to go, have stuff to do tomorrow morning, but that she should follow me and we could meet up tomorrow when we're all drunk and can be drunk together. She of course agreed. I hope I wrote my ig into her phone correctly though... What a retard I am haha...
She asked me if I remember her name, of course I did then asked her if she remembered mine. Of course she didn't (she was tipsy). Then told her I have 2 more questions for her, then I'll have to leave.
1. Whats up with triangles? She explained and I got a chance to hold her hand and shortly caress it. She kinda offered me to touch her ear as well but I didn't, don't know why... Maybe better for the social frame.
2. How old am I. Then wen't into the vampire role play and made it even sexier ''we can meet tomorrow and I can drink your blood'' then she told me she's 30 ''I've been with older than you'' and ''I like young blood''. Crazy how much you can get away with under this role play frame.
Then I hugged her goodbye... It was interesting, because I gave her a half hug to see her response, then she hugged me back and I stayed like that and she leaned into me and hugged me more. Maybe I'm over analising here, but I think this was a non verbal disqualifier.... chase frame?
Gave HBSpain a high five and went home.
Aftermath
She did follow me in the next day afternoon. I was out in the evening and dm'd her around midnight ''u our?'' ''what mischief are you up to'' but she didn't respond, didn't even seen the texts. I may text her again next week if there won't be any other good opportunities that grab my attention.
