What is your view on birthday presents?
We've only been together for few months and I'm moving to her country. Shortly after that, is her birthday.
We're young and living on a budget, I don't plan on buying fancy stuff at all.
We're both into some kinky stuff so I've been planning on buying something like 2 whips and perhaps some extra accessory. I can tell she's expecting it though, so there wouldn't be much of a surprise if I just stopped there.
So I was thinking about adding something special, like a nice handwritten note on why I like her and/or why I think she's a significant person in my life. But I'm not sure if this won't make my game weaker. We're in an early stage of a relationship and in fact haven't seen each other in months now. I don't want to show too much affection right off the bat.
Another thing I was thinking about (in addition to kinky stuff) is a custom t-shirt that has some (ironic) text that (mostly) only two of us understand the real meaning. Such text would ideally non-directly imply an idea that she's into me or that she's submissive to me. Something playful. I already got one text in mind that on surface doesn't look suspicious, but we both know it means that she likes (to eat) my sperm.
BTW, she didn't get the chance to celebrate my birthday yet.
Thoughts?
We've only been together for few months and I'm moving to her country. Shortly after that, is her birthday.
We're young and living on a budget, I don't plan on buying fancy stuff at all.
We're both into some kinky stuff so I've been planning on buying something like 2 whips and perhaps some extra accessory. I can tell she's expecting it though, so there wouldn't be much of a surprise if I just stopped there.
So I was thinking about adding something special, like a nice handwritten note on why I like her and/or why I think she's a significant person in my life. But I'm not sure if this won't make my game weaker. We're in an early stage of a relationship and in fact haven't seen each other in months now. I don't want to show too much affection right off the bat.
Another thing I was thinking about (in addition to kinky stuff) is a custom t-shirt that has some (ironic) text that (mostly) only two of us understand the real meaning. Such text would ideally non-directly imply an idea that she's into me or that she's submissive to me. Something playful. I already got one text in mind that on surface doesn't look suspicious, but we both know it means that she likes (to eat) my sperm.
BTW, she didn't get the chance to celebrate my birthday yet.
Thoughts?
