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I see a lot of pretty trite advice in self-help (definitely less so here) about 'not being afraid to go for what you want'.
I don't know about anyone else, but for me, this has always been less the issue - once I have a clear idea of what I want and how to get it, even if I'm afraid/freaking out/otherwise unsure, I can normally push through all that to get there. Getting to that point of decidedness is a huge issue though - I've always had a huge issue with being uncertain about what I want at any given moment, and I don't think I'm alone - almost all of my 'nice' friends are guys (and girls) who have no particular desires. Any chance we can get an article on cultivating desire and getting in touch with what it is we want? Especially when it comes to pick-up and being a powerful guy, I find this is where I stumble most, both in terms of basic motivation and also screening out decisions which will be bad for me in the long run.
I don't know about anyone else, but for me, this has always been less the issue - once I have a clear idea of what I want and how to get it, even if I'm afraid/freaking out/otherwise unsure, I can normally push through all that to get there. Getting to that point of decidedness is a huge issue though - I've always had a huge issue with being uncertain about what I want at any given moment, and I don't think I'm alone - almost all of my 'nice' friends are guys (and girls) who have no particular desires. Any chance we can get an article on cultivating desire and getting in touch with what it is we want? Especially when it comes to pick-up and being a powerful guy, I find this is where I stumble most, both in terms of basic motivation and also screening out decisions which will be bad for me in the long run.
