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3/16 - 7:30AM COMMUTE
Met this girl on my morning commute – at the time I was honestly in a horrible mood still stinging (and taking personally) from a royal fuck up on the last weekend. But I’ve committed to approaching three women a day minimum and wanted to get started – on the train I had noticed a girl with a sharp blue hair streak, and thought to myself “hmm, she looks fun to talk to,” but she was sitting a solid ten feet away on the crowded train. Well, lo and behold she happened to start walking right beside me as I was getting off! She had headphones in, so I tapped her and got her attention.
She was very enthusiastic and we chatted about design and architecture for a while.
This is such a fun little encounter, and she’s right there with me, not leaving and just as invested! But we’re coming to the end of this section – I have to turn right and she’s going straight at the next traffic light, which we reach in a few seconds.
I’ve stopped waiting to send girls the icebreaker unless I’m actually busy, so at the gym I texted her:
So now the thread is over, but lo and behold see messages me one day later.
3/17 - SHE’S CHASING
I figured that she’s messaging me, and I already had tickets to a design show – wasn’t planning to go, but why not invite her?
Cool, so plans are set up.
Then, this girl texts me AGAIN! This time it’s on Monday, 3/20. Only issue – I’m already visiting another girl in Oregon and took the day off work. I'm with her and honestly can’t even think straight.
3/22
I’ve noticed that when girls are REALLY excited to meet you, they’ve been early to the date. Sometimes they even get a coffee ahead of time. And she texts me at 6:50 for our 7:00 date that she’s already there.
We chat for about five minutes about her day, and then she asks if I want to go grab a coffee.
For some of these dates I don’t even get a coffee anymore – it’s a good sign when she’s already sitting there and she’s already got her coffee. So I don’t even bother with it.
So we leave and it’s been about five or ten minutes.
MOVE TO WALK AROUND, 7:15PM
<I wonder if she actually mentioned this BECAUSE she wanted to go to my house>
Our vibe is pretty flirty and we’re talking about her travels. Walk for fifteen minutes or so just chatting about Los Angeles and how she doesn’t like it, and how she’s grown up in the city and what it’s like to travel so much.
I’ve been touching her periodically throughout our walk, just behind her elbow. But FINALLY, while crossing a street, she turns towards me and lightly punches me on my shoulder and then touches it. THIS is exactly what I was looking for – GAME ON!
We’re walking along and suddenly she perks up in front of a jazz bar with live music in the basement. It sounds great and I’m having fun – fuck it, why not. We pop in this crowded jazz bar and take seats on the bar – but it’s kind of loud and it also turns out there’s a two drink minimum per person. She’s worried that I can’t hear her, and I tell her “sure I can, plus we get to enjoy this amazing music.” I buy us a beer each with all the cash I have left and tell her it’s on her next time. She agrees.
We’re chatting now about a variety of stuff – and I find out she actually lives at home with her family out in the suburbs, maybe an hour or so away from the city. She used to live in the city but it was too crazy for her – going out too much and drinking and partying and all that. Yep, kind of a crazy girl but I actually really like this type.
We’re also facing each other on the bar, and some time along the conversation I put my hand on her thigh and leave it there, and then she puts her hand over mine, and then I grab her hand and hold it. She holds it tightly, passionately – she’s going to be a freak in bed, I already know it. We hold this for ten minutes while chatting and laughing.
The bartender’s already at the other side of the bar and I’m almost done with my drink. She still has half of hers…but the timing is right to pull her.
HOP ON SUBWAY AND WALK HOME
So we walk another three or four blocks, I’m still walking in the direction of the station with the subway line that leads home. But, now I’ve also learned that she lives in that direction herself. So this was easy, I didn’t have to create plausible deniability…yet!
Crossing one street right before, I suddenly just felt a desire to kiss her. I don’t know what it was, but I felt it and she was right next to me. So I looked at her over my shoulder, then quickly leaned in and went for it. But…she turned away at the last second and I got the cheek. So instead I grabbed the back of her head and kissed her softly on the cheek, then her neck, then carried on without saying anything.
We now walk into the station, and board the train soon. On the train she’s directly facing me, her body close and especially her waist very close. Talk some more and we also start holding hands.
Out of the station I take her along the water, it’s a ten minute walk home and we’re walking that way as it is. Talk about architecture and our favorite buildings.
I talk about where I live on the walk over, then we enter my building and she comes up. I have her take off her shoes, give her some water, then let her know I need to use the bathroom, I’ll be right back. When I get out she’s sitting on the couch quietly leaning over and drinking her water. Says nothing. So I sit down right next to her, put my arm around her shoulder and with my free hand gently touch the side of her face and kiss her. This time she’s all about it, and soon enough she climbs over me, then I pick her up and throw her on the bed.
PERIOD AND HAVING HER STAY
We’re kissing a ton and fooling around but nothing comes off. At some point I pick her up again and continue to make out with her, but then disengage and turn on my projector and go to the computer to turn on a show.
We’re now back in bed. I kiss her passionately and make out with her body.
Seem to be getting a lot of girls on their period, haha.
Later on we put on the TV show and get back in bed again, then kiss passionately once more and I start to really rub her pussy over her jeans, which she isn’t taking off. She’s horny, though. This goes on for an episode of the show, but it’s almost 11pm. She thinks she has to head home, but I tell her she can stay here if she wants. She tells me she can’t do anything and that she has no clothes. I tell her that’s cool, I like spending time with her here and she can borrow one of my shirts if she promises to give it back. She thinks about it and agrees, and I then grab some night clothes and shorts and hand it to her, she puts them on.
Perfect, so now she’s just wearing a shirt, shorts, and her panties.
SPENDING THE NIGHT
We watched this TV show until around 1:30am, and the whole time we were just fooling around. Took off all her clothes. MASSIVE BOOBS!! Wow, probably D’s, very unusual for a Korean girl. She was definitely heavy on her period, and so I fingered her clit in a bunch of different ways and she came a bunch of times, then she got really excited and without my prompting she just got on top of me, then worked her head down to my cock and took it in – the whole thing. Gave quite possibly the best head I’ve received – it was hard but so rhythmic. And somewhere along the way I even came, which has never before happened when a girl gives me head. And…she swallowed the whole load! Good girl!
God, I love women!
Kissed a bunch and slept together.
Finally, early in the morning while it was still dark out I woke up and started aggressively making out with her, and her with me. She eventually gets on top of me totally naked but with her tampon still on and starts rubbing on my cock. It’s partially slipping in and she’s moaning hard…it’s definitely on.
She ran over to the bathroom and came back totally naked two minutes later. Jumped on top of me and I suddenly lost my erection. Goddammit, this again – I’ve figured out why this happens, but more or less painful experiences of long ago have instilled a body response around women. Constantly I’m fighting this. I focused on getting present with her in this moment (rather than being in my head and worrying about shit) and just feeling her wonderful body.
And then it happened – I got hard, slipped it in raw, and went buck wild for a little bit. Flipped her on her side and then fucked her for like ten minutes until I came just outside her pussy. Wasn’t a great performance on my part, but I didn’t care – I did it! The sun was coming up by this point and we had to get up to head to work soon anyway.
There was a massive bloody mess on my entire right side and also on the bed – luckily I have a plastic sheet and it’s easy to clean; I gave her a throw away shirt to clean it up while I showered.
MORNING AFTER
We get dressed, I let her borrow a black shirt, then clean my apartment a bit, then we walk out. We’re now holding hands like a couple, and I suggest we grab coffee. Chat more about her work and I open up more about myself. I ask her about her own travels – seems her work sends her off to other cities all the time and she specializes in interiors and site visits for retail projects. Love the ambition.
And on and on….
Looking forward to more adventures with this girl. She’s been texting me every day which is both good and bad – good in that it’s going to be ongoing and I can turn this into an MLTR, and bad because I think I’ve been slotted into a potential boyfriend role and I’m not sure that’s what I want with her. She’s texting me several times a day and definitely wants this to go fast, haha.
Met this girl on my morning commute – at the time I was honestly in a horrible mood still stinging (and taking personally) from a royal fuck up on the last weekend. But I’ve committed to approaching three women a day minimum and wanted to get started – on the train I had noticed a girl with a sharp blue hair streak, and thought to myself “hmm, she looks fun to talk to,” but she was sitting a solid ten feet away on the crowded train. Well, lo and behold she happened to start walking right beside me as I was getting off! She had headphones in, so I tapped her and got her attention.
She was very enthusiastic and we chatted about design and architecture for a while.
This is such a fun little encounter, and she’s right there with me, not leaving and just as invested! But we’re coming to the end of this section – I have to turn right and she’s going straight at the next traffic light, which we reach in a few seconds.
I was so excited. Already my mood went from shit to hit, girls are awesome I tell you.
I’ve stopped waiting to send girls the icebreaker unless I’m actually busy, so at the gym I texted her:
ME: Sophie - hey! Cool meeting a stylish designer off the subway, save my number - GP.
HER: Hi GP, it was nice meeting you too! Haha I looked like a schmuck today but thanksss~ have a good workout!
ME: Haha - we'll call it "Derelicht" like in Zoolander. Create a lovely day, lady!
HER: Haha thanks! You too!
So now the thread is over, but lo and behold see messages me one day later.
3/17 - SHE’S CHASING
HER: Didnt see you on the path this morning =P
ME: Haha - did you spend the night in Chicago again?
HER: Chicago? Psh no, I slept over in LA last night. Life of a jetsetter XD
ME: Well that was a poor choice - to come back to NY instead of laying out on the beach!
HER:
ME: Haha, sure we can
ME: Thinking about going to the A&D show, and I have an extra ticket.
I figured that she’s messaging me, and I already had tickets to a design show – wasn’t planning to go, but why not invite her?
HER: Aww man, I actually have a comedy show to go to tonight =( sorryyyyyyy
ME: Word, that will be fun! Enjoy yourself
HER: Thanks! Let's plan to meet up sometime next week if possible?
ME: Sure! How's your schedule?
HER: Hmm... Free after work m-w. What about you?
ME: Let's say Tuesday after work, cool?
HER: <She sends me a Bitmoji of her with glasses that say “COOL”.>
ME: Daria? I suspect somebody really wants to get out of work and play today...
HER: Hahaha yes I have that rbf like Daria but no, that's supposed to be me! And yes, I can't wait to see this show!!!
ME: Ah, that cute rbf you show to the guys you like? Haha - have fun tonight!
HER: Why of course, that smoldering getthefuckawayfromme look makes all the boys weak at the knees ~ thanks! And have fun at the a&d show!
ME: Maybe the masochists, but that's cool too
Cool, so plans are set up.
Then, this girl texts me AGAIN! This time it’s on Monday, 3/20. Only issue – I’m already visiting another girl in Oregon and took the day off work. I'm with her and honestly can’t even think straight.
HER: Hey GP! Did you have a good weekend?
ME: Hey there Sophie! Luckily still not over
HER: What do you mean still not over? You had off today? Omg I was in tears at that show ahhhh, it was everything I dreamed of and more
ME: Is that so?
Haha
HER: Whaa?
HER: Where did you float off to fo the weekend? And when will you be back?
ME: Little jaunt to the west coast
HER: Oh how lovely! I usually get off... Anywhere between 6-7? I can sneak out at 6 if i have plans though. What about you?
ME: It was! Did you venture out? OK cool, what say we plan to meet around 7:00, coffee perhaps.
HER: Last night? Noooo I did not, I barely got sleep the night before so I was incredibly tired. Where would you like to meet? Plenty of good coffee places around
ME: Haha I meant the weekend, but it sounds like you had a little adventure
HER: Never been there before so sounds good! Ooo yes I had some adventures this past weekend but I'm sure your weekend was probably better
ME: Perfect. Ohhh man, maybe we should start a wager then!
3/22
3/22 - COFFEE MEET; 7:00pmHER: What would you like to wager?
ME: Could be a coffee, could be a request....
HER: Can't do coffee cuz we'll probably get that before we start talking!
ME: Oh, is that so?
HER: Uh oh a dare??
ME: Anxious I see!
HER: Yes! =D =D =D
I’ve noticed that when girls are REALLY excited to meet you, they’ve been early to the date. Sometimes they even get a coffee ahead of time. And she texts me at 6:50 for our 7:00 date that she’s already there.
I head into the coffee shop and actually chat with a cute girl near the front of the shop. I had to, couldn’t help it. Get her number. Five minutes later, I head far inside the shop and she’s hidden behind a wall. I look up at the ceiling, then smile at her, then back up at the ceiling pretending not to notice her. Come up to the table and hug, but she smells nice:HER: I'm inside in the back, around the corner
ME: Ah secretly hidden away
HER: Tucked into a corner... Not so secret though since I told you. Damn. I shouldnt have told you!
ME: Ah shit now I have to pretend not to notice you
HER: Haha you don't HAVE to
We chat for about five minutes about her day, and then she asks if I want to go grab a coffee.
For some of these dates I don’t even get a coffee anymore – it’s a good sign when she’s already sitting there and she’s already got her coffee. So I don’t even bother with it.
So we leave and it’s been about five or ten minutes.
MOVE TO WALK AROUND, 7:15PM
<I wonder if she actually mentioned this BECAUSE she wanted to go to my house>
Our vibe is pretty flirty and we’re talking about her travels. Walk for fifteen minutes or so just chatting about Los Angeles and how she doesn’t like it, and how she’s grown up in the city and what it’s like to travel so much.
I’ve been touching her periodically throughout our walk, just behind her elbow. But FINALLY, while crossing a street, she turns towards me and lightly punches me on my shoulder and then touches it. THIS is exactly what I was looking for – GAME ON!
We’re walking along and suddenly she perks up in front of a jazz bar with live music in the basement. It sounds great and I’m having fun – fuck it, why not. We pop in this crowded jazz bar and take seats on the bar – but it’s kind of loud and it also turns out there’s a two drink minimum per person. She’s worried that I can’t hear her, and I tell her “sure I can, plus we get to enjoy this amazing music.” I buy us a beer each with all the cash I have left and tell her it’s on her next time. She agrees.
We’re chatting now about a variety of stuff – and I find out she actually lives at home with her family out in the suburbs, maybe an hour or so away from the city. She used to live in the city but it was too crazy for her – going out too much and drinking and partying and all that. Yep, kind of a crazy girl but I actually really like this type.
We’re also facing each other on the bar, and some time along the conversation I put my hand on her thigh and leave it there, and then she puts her hand over mine, and then I grab her hand and hold it. She holds it tightly, passionately – she’s going to be a freak in bed, I already know it. We hold this for ten minutes while chatting and laughing.
The bartender’s already at the other side of the bar and I’m almost done with my drink. She still has half of hers…but the timing is right to pull her.
HOP ON SUBWAY AND WALK HOME
So we walk another three or four blocks, I’m still walking in the direction of the station with the subway line that leads home. But, now I’ve also learned that she lives in that direction herself. So this was easy, I didn’t have to create plausible deniability…yet!
Crossing one street right before, I suddenly just felt a desire to kiss her. I don’t know what it was, but I felt it and she was right next to me. So I looked at her over my shoulder, then quickly leaned in and went for it. But…she turned away at the last second and I got the cheek. So instead I grabbed the back of her head and kissed her softly on the cheek, then her neck, then carried on without saying anything.
We now walk into the station, and board the train soon. On the train she’s directly facing me, her body close and especially her waist very close. Talk some more and we also start holding hands.
Out of the station I take her along the water, it’s a ten minute walk home and we’re walking that way as it is. Talk about architecture and our favorite buildings.
Perfect!!
I talk about where I live on the walk over, then we enter my building and she comes up. I have her take off her shoes, give her some water, then let her know I need to use the bathroom, I’ll be right back. When I get out she’s sitting on the couch quietly leaning over and drinking her water. Says nothing. So I sit down right next to her, put my arm around her shoulder and with my free hand gently touch the side of her face and kiss her. This time she’s all about it, and soon enough she climbs over me, then I pick her up and throw her on the bed.
PERIOD AND HAVING HER STAY
I just smile – I don’t give a fuck at this point. This girl’s here, she’s in my bed, I’m smiling and her eyes are deep and pretty and this moment is perfect. I don’t even care about fucking her all that much – it’s just nice that she’s here and she’s here with ME.
We’re kissing a ton and fooling around but nothing comes off. At some point I pick her up again and continue to make out with her, but then disengage and turn on my projector and go to the computer to turn on a show.
We’re now back in bed. I kiss her passionately and make out with her body.
Seem to be getting a lot of girls on their period, haha.
Later on we put on the TV show and get back in bed again, then kiss passionately once more and I start to really rub her pussy over her jeans, which she isn’t taking off. She’s horny, though. This goes on for an episode of the show, but it’s almost 11pm. She thinks she has to head home, but I tell her she can stay here if she wants. She tells me she can’t do anything and that she has no clothes. I tell her that’s cool, I like spending time with her here and she can borrow one of my shirts if she promises to give it back. She thinks about it and agrees, and I then grab some night clothes and shorts and hand it to her, she puts them on.
Perfect, so now she’s just wearing a shirt, shorts, and her panties.
SPENDING THE NIGHT
We watched this TV show until around 1:30am, and the whole time we were just fooling around. Took off all her clothes. MASSIVE BOOBS!! Wow, probably D’s, very unusual for a Korean girl. She was definitely heavy on her period, and so I fingered her clit in a bunch of different ways and she came a bunch of times, then she got really excited and without my prompting she just got on top of me, then worked her head down to my cock and took it in – the whole thing. Gave quite possibly the best head I’ve received – it was hard but so rhythmic. And somewhere along the way I even came, which has never before happened when a girl gives me head. And…she swallowed the whole load! Good girl!
God, I love women!
Kissed a bunch and slept together.
Finally, early in the morning while it was still dark out I woke up and started aggressively making out with her, and her with me. She eventually gets on top of me totally naked but with her tampon still on and starts rubbing on my cock. It’s partially slipping in and she’s moaning hard…it’s definitely on.
She ran over to the bathroom and came back totally naked two minutes later. Jumped on top of me and I suddenly lost my erection. Goddammit, this again – I’ve figured out why this happens, but more or less painful experiences of long ago have instilled a body response around women. Constantly I’m fighting this. I focused on getting present with her in this moment (rather than being in my head and worrying about shit) and just feeling her wonderful body.
And then it happened – I got hard, slipped it in raw, and went buck wild for a little bit. Flipped her on her side and then fucked her for like ten minutes until I came just outside her pussy. Wasn’t a great performance on my part, but I didn’t care – I did it! The sun was coming up by this point and we had to get up to head to work soon anyway.
There was a massive bloody mess on my entire right side and also on the bed – luckily I have a plastic sheet and it’s easy to clean; I gave her a throw away shirt to clean it up while I showered.
MORNING AFTER
We get dressed, I let her borrow a black shirt, then clean my apartment a bit, then we walk out. We’re now holding hands like a couple, and I suggest we grab coffee. Chat more about her work and I open up more about myself. I ask her about her own travels – seems her work sends her off to other cities all the time and she specializes in interiors and site visits for retail projects. Love the ambition.
ME: Sophie – had a lovely evening and morning with you, hope you weren’t too tired for that meeting
HER: GP, so did I, though you’re still a mystery to me. No, I was alright this morning but thank you! You bad influence you…
ME: Glad to hear. Guess we’ll see if your mystery solving skills are better than your hiding skills
And on and on….
Looking forward to more adventures with this girl. She’s been texting me every day which is both good and bad – good in that it’s going to be ongoing and I can turn this into an MLTR, and bad because I think I’ve been slotted into a potential boyfriend role and I’m not sure that’s what I want with her. She’s texting me several times a day and definitely wants this to go fast, haha.
