Body language CYCLE to keep her chasing and/or reward?

[The Byronic Man]

When it comes to body language, below is my process when talking with women. What could I be doing better? Please comment/critique/suggest.

1. Start off leaning back.
2. When she leans towards you, still lean back. I used to lean forward immediately to reward her, but I think that's too soon and eager.
3. When she says or does something worthy of your attention, finally lean forward. This seems more natural because she earned your attention. I guess in a way, it's a subtle qualification as well. The tricky part is knowing when she's earned it--is that simply a matter of calibration?
4. If she leans back, you also lean back immediately. The tricky part is not making it appear reactive. Suggestions?
5. Restart cycle at step 2.

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I'm not very sure about this cycle. I can see exceptions where you're leaning towards her most of the time...because it's more comfortable and/or you're so powerful and your frame is strong enough that it doesn't matter. On the flip side, if you're leaning back the whole time and she's leaning towards you, I'm afraid she may auto-reject for feeling that you're not attainable enough.

 

[Ryan]

This is really helpful to beginners like me, thank you.