Boyfriend role

[SlyGuy]

I keep reading how you have to everything you can to eliminate yourself from falling into the boyfriend role and not seeming like a good candidate as a provider. Well what if you are a great candidate as a provider? Great future, great education, attractive, great job, great family, ladadada. How do you eliminate yourself from being a good potential boyfriend?
Leading a too busy life to have time for a girlfriend making it obvious that if she wants anything from you it can only be sexual fulfillment?
OR should you portray yourself as kind of unsuccessful to come across less as boyfriend material?

Just wondering because I feel like if a girl knew my lifestory inside and out I'd be a great boyfriend candidate and I'm wondering if that's holding me back.

 

[trashKENNUT]

SlyGuy,

Just wondering because I feel like if a girl knew my lifestory inside and out I'd be a great boyfriend candidate and I'm wondering if that's holding me back.

Sometimes you can't remove girls from seeing you as a boyfriend candidate. Maybe she accidentally sees you...

1)donate to some grandmother because she needs it
2)Nice to waiter and waitresses a little bit too much

and yada yada.

Checkout Chase article, do as much as you can, and feedback again. Some girls are also just too experience and will test you.

Zac

 

[SlyGuy]

So just always work on eliminating yourself from the boyfriend role every chance possible?

 

[trashKENNUT]

SlyGuy,

So just always work on eliminating yourself from the boyfriend role every chance possible?

You can eliminate chances of she assuming you to be boyfriend material, but sometimes there are situations where she knows you beforehand through some social circle or facebook or she sees some characteristic of boyfriend material during the date.

You can only minimize such situations. If you're in Asia, like me, Sometimes girls already know you because of extended social circles.

Zac