Boyfriend zone just means she likely expecting you more

[trashKENNUT]

Boyfriend zone just means she likely expecting you more.

Date compression is a tool to get by her rules and also if you happen to move slow. At the end of the day, girls know in this day and age that things are not as rosy as it looks.

After three to six months of not getting into a relationship, she will drift. So let her be.

Zac

 

[Franco]

Hey Zac, just a quick addendum here:

Date compression is a tool to get by her rules

It's not so much a tool to "get by" her rules as it is a tool to "meet the absolute minimum requirements of her rules" so that she will still sleep with you before she goes into auto-rejection or completely boyfriend-zones you. Too many guys try to go "above and beyond" the rules to show girls that they REALLY can pass the rules with flying colors. Unfortunately, those guys don't understand that girls only have those rules in place to protect themselves from getting hurt -- in reality, if a girl likes you, she would love to have sex with you on the first date and boyfriend you as soon after if she knew for sure that that would be the exact outcome.

Date compression gives her the closest thing to that without "breaking" her rules. =)

- Franco

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Franco,

"meet the absolute minimum requirements of her rules" so that she will still sleep with you before she goes into auto-rejection or completely boyfriend-zones you.

I am sure that quality women tend to have this rules, too. Not just decent girls. Those girls who are models and degree holders. I know not all of them. I mean as far as i have seen, from what i read and learn and see from guys who got lucky with this superbly beautiful girls, they tend to get the girls but they go through shit by winning through her friends.

The completely boyfriend zone is true. GIrls never really truely boyfriend zone you unless you really nice and not sexy at all.

Too many guys try to go "above and beyond" the rules to show girls that they REALLY can pass the rules with flying colors. Unfortunately, those guys don't understand that girls only have those rules in place to protect themselves from getting hurt

Exactly and it refers to my point on guys going through her friends in my about statement. and yes indeed, they place those from getting hurt. There are girls who's deceiving as well.

But at the end of the day, Cassanova once note that the art of the dating game is indeed "deceiving" until both become lovers. The word "Deceiving" means here fighting for value and who is above and below for power.

He's brilliant.

Date compression gives her the closest thing to that without "breaking" her rules. =)

Sometimes you just have to entertain societal conditioning given the magazines and friends she been with for the past 20 years.

Your thoughts?

Zac