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tvktvk

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey guys, what's up. Very small report right here. I haven't been on here much lately due to putting my focus on other matters right now. As a result I haven't gotten too much action, but I'm doing okay. i've been on a few dates, getting massive attention from extended social circle bitches, making out with girls here and there during nightgame and hopefully fucking this blonde on sunday. Anyways, on to this report which was my failed situational attempt at daygame:

This last semester I've noticed a lot of attention from chicks especially when going grocery shopping... And from my experience a few weeks back I have to start picking up girls here. LESSON LEARNED.

I had to stock up on groceries so I went to the local store. I was dressed much more formally than I usually do since I was working at my office later. I was wearing a olive green buttondown, slim kaki dress pants folded up a bit, all black sneakers and my black banana republic military jacket. In the store I check my phone for my grocery list and do my rounds. I get some looks from females here and there, but nothing special. Then suddenly I pass this beautiful 20-something brunette who starts ogling me. I can only base my opinion on how she looked, but she seemed like an elite bracket girl in terms of quality. Perfect scandinavian features, dressed elegantly and classy, she was simply gorgeous. And for some reason she had the complete hots for me...

Whenever I stopped to get an item off my list she would suddenly appear right next to me like a ninja and I would just eject cause I was both nervous by how hot this girl was and creeped out by her behaviour. I also couldnt think of a smooth opener. After I was done with my list I see here walking towards the line to the cashier which is not too crowded and I see the perfect openeing. I walk up to her and simply say Hey could you watch my stuff? I forgot one item... She turns around, sees me and responds VERY warmly. She says yeah no problem. Just to test how into me she was I stare her dead in the eyes without flinching, give her a half smile before I turn around, and she completely melts. She blushes and looks down.

THIS ABSOLUTE STUNNER OF A WOMAN IS NERVOUS BECAUSE OF MY PRESENCE!!! WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK

When I get back to the line, she's looking back at me to see if I'm going to say anything. She's playing with her hair... All the signs were there!!! But I froze. I didnt know what to say. You could seriously cut the tension with a knife and it was killing me but I couldnt spark up the conversation smoothly. This poor beautiful girl was so dissapointed. She starts talking to the cashier and I see her walk out and right out of my life...fuck.

Thoughts
- So I guess my fundamentals were tight as fuck that day. I also think she took a very strong liking to me becauuse I was dressed rather formally but with an edge. She was likewise dressed very elegantly.
- I've always thought myself as a hot guy, but I didn't think I would able to attract that kind of blue chip girl with my current fundamentals. This was kinda of a revelation and now I really believe I can have any type of girl I want if I work hard enough.
- Next time this happens in the store I'll just say "Hey do I know you? You look familiar..."

tvktvk
 

Sophisticated Gent

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tvktvk,

I had a similiar experience two years ago at the auto show. I saw one of the models who was cute and young, 18 to 20. I talked to her for a minute and then walked off. I was looking at another car and turn around. She was standing right behind me. I said "Are you following me?". She smiled blushed and said "Maybe". From there we talked for a while. I felt the same as you that I couldn't believe a young cuties was chasing me.

My advice is to get used to getting attention from high end women. I struggle with this but am working on it. When your fundamentals are good it happens.

Regarding the girl the high end women are used to guys drooling over them. If you set a strong masculine frame they love it. If you give them a hard way to go they find it very attractive. Having her watch your cart was smooth. Next time keep your strong frame. If she thinks you are used to dealing with hot women she'll chase you.

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Zoro

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Haha what a bummer! I know that feeling all too well.

While I'm still working on this type of thing myself, I think the root of the issue isn't so much you don't know what to say, but rather your filter or inhibitions are too thick to just say what comes to mind.

Clever lines and witty remarks are lame compared to genuine interest and warm small talk (with sexy undertones (;) which come out naturally once you "get out of your own way"

I'll have to take my own advice here too and test it out.
 
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