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Wake up, no social media to check on my phone. Still centered, still focused on results by any means necessary.
This was in the afternoon, kinda changed into evening. It was at bars and restaurants too... so not sure whether that counts for day game / night game. Drinking was there but we kept it light.
After exercising and doing some chores I hit a beach bar and get a beer, reading on my phone and waiting for girls to come in. I got a great seat that both gives me the beauty of the water and keeps moving around flexible for approaching. It took about 15-20 minutes before anyone was hot enough to walk in. I see a vibrantly dressed HB 6.9 - 7.1 Brazilian sit down to my left, next to a couple that's in between us. I wait about 10 minutes then go up to her,
"Are you here alone?" (she is), "Me too - mind if I sit?
"
She lights up. I deep dive her as to why she's here alone, / traveling. He had a rough July and came here with friends on a whim from a popular state northeast of mine. Her english is fluent but not perfect, and she knows a little spanish. Mainly knows portuguese, which I have never studies. I tell her I'm fluent in spainglish and she likes my goofy sense of humor, so I keep it simple with her. We quickly get into relationships and differences between men and women, also leaning hard into the adventurous frames that she gave to me of "came here on a whim". Talked about how people hold themselves back too much, and on their death beds they regret all the things they didn't do, not the things they did do (says me with tons of credit card debt, lol).
Her friends land down later tonight, so she's by herself for the next 5-6 hours. PERFECT. Lol. I start laying into my sex therapist frames amongst our relationship talk, and I think I've gotten most of this gambit down to make it insertable to most conversations without coming off as too sexually explicit and triggering ASD. She also was ESL so it wasn't that difficult.
I only had about 2 hrs before I needed to head into a restaurant to work on a business opportunity, but I figured it might actually help me if I brought a date with me. So on a whim I say fuck it, and invite this chick to come with me for a drink somewhere else. I framed it as me being her tour guide since it was her first time in the city. She's hella compliant and we go to my car, then I drive us down to a different area near the beach. We walk for a bit and talk, and then I say I totally miscalculated how far we'd have to walk for the beach spot... and we should totally just keep hanging out at my restaurant venture down town. I show her some pictures and she complies again.
Wanted to stagger it and gain more compliance before moving her all the way downtown... definitely lost lays from moving compliance too fast when I'm rusty. So slowly but surely we get moving on it. I start to be a little more sexual, saying something about male bikinis versus female bikinis and how women are so lucky they can just walk around half naked and nowhere seems to care. She hits me back with my ability to do so in a speedo and I go, "wow you really are brazilian!" and she laughs.
It absolutely helped that this woman did not know shit about the city and I'm fairly versed in where to go, what to do, etc. Leading was too easy.
At the dinner, I'm NGL it was kinda boring with her. The restaurant itself had gone through some major changes that aren't exactly great, and our seating was just really bad. The service was terrible too, lol so we basically made fun of that the whole time. Eventually the deep diving comes back and I lean into the sex therapist frames I set earlier and explain that the communication men and women have in relationships is so different, particularly in how men and women talk about sex.
"Men, if they tell their friends about the sex they're having... keep it so simple. I really don't talk about it other than 1-2 very close and trusted friends.... as to not possibly harm the reputation of the woman.... but when sex comes up it's like, "yeah - her ass was awesome", and that's it."
She laughs so hard and says how women talk about way more than that (which I know, but I want HER to be the one TELLING ME this stuff. I kept this same dynamic for the adventurous frames, and for the frames about how sex communication between partners should be better).
I stagger the sex communication between partners into sex talk seamlessly, mainly about how married couples will have a relationship for YEARS, decades even, without the man getting to explore some adventurous parts of sex and then maybe cheating, or the woman not actually reaching orgasm and then cheating. Or at the very least having both partners just disappointed about their present situation. And about how if a woman's mind is set to the right place, orgasms don't have to be that hard.
Then she starts to tell me how she needs to be emotionally attracted to the man she's sleeping with to even get aroused, and I loop back into the speedo comment from earlier, "What so a cute California man in a speedo isn't enough for you?" and she laughs super hard, so I touch her leg with a devilish smile.
The dinner wraps up, and good news, her friends' flight got delayed. I say "well we still should get your car home. how about one tequila shot and then we make sure that's safe before more adventure" (keeping whatever the adventure is ambiguous). She agrees and I tell her I'll call the uber to her car. We walk away, and as we're waiting I ask, "do you have any wine at your hotel?". She doesn't and I say, "would you like to fix that?" and touch her wrist, looking deeply into her eyes. She gets a little nervous here and says that we should not do that... because..... and then can't think of a reason.
I go, "we shouldn't do that....?"
She says, "no - you are super wonderful but no we shouldn't"
Yes ladderish, while pulling her into me slowly "Okay, so you met me by chance... you've been having a great time with me... and we agree on a lot of... interesting topics (I start getting hard here)... would you say that's right?" (fully push her into my half hard dick while leaning my face in)... and BOOM she kisses me.
GG lmao. Total 180 on her frame. When you've set all the right frames, arousal will push through LMR. It was just a little LMR too lol she didn't shit test me with it... was just nerves.
After that it wasn't much more than getting to her hotel and keeping the vibes high, using more touch on her legs and inner thighs. Walked through the door threw her on the bed and gave it to her proper. Was out of there in an hour, she wasn't that exciting in bed tbh lol.
This was in the afternoon, kinda changed into evening. It was at bars and restaurants too... so not sure whether that counts for day game / night game. Drinking was there but we kept it light.
After exercising and doing some chores I hit a beach bar and get a beer, reading on my phone and waiting for girls to come in. I got a great seat that both gives me the beauty of the water and keeps moving around flexible for approaching. It took about 15-20 minutes before anyone was hot enough to walk in. I see a vibrantly dressed HB 6.9 - 7.1 Brazilian sit down to my left, next to a couple that's in between us. I wait about 10 minutes then go up to her,
"Are you here alone?" (she is), "Me too - mind if I sit?
"She lights up. I deep dive her as to why she's here alone, / traveling. He had a rough July and came here with friends on a whim from a popular state northeast of mine. Her english is fluent but not perfect, and she knows a little spanish. Mainly knows portuguese, which I have never studies. I tell her I'm fluent in spainglish and she likes my goofy sense of humor, so I keep it simple with her. We quickly get into relationships and differences between men and women, also leaning hard into the adventurous frames that she gave to me of "came here on a whim". Talked about how people hold themselves back too much, and on their death beds they regret all the things they didn't do, not the things they did do (says me with tons of credit card debt, lol).
Her friends land down later tonight, so she's by herself for the next 5-6 hours. PERFECT. Lol. I start laying into my sex therapist frames amongst our relationship talk, and I think I've gotten most of this gambit down to make it insertable to most conversations without coming off as too sexually explicit and triggering ASD. She also was ESL so it wasn't that difficult.
I only had about 2 hrs before I needed to head into a restaurant to work on a business opportunity, but I figured it might actually help me if I brought a date with me. So on a whim I say fuck it, and invite this chick to come with me for a drink somewhere else. I framed it as me being her tour guide since it was her first time in the city. She's hella compliant and we go to my car, then I drive us down to a different area near the beach. We walk for a bit and talk, and then I say I totally miscalculated how far we'd have to walk for the beach spot... and we should totally just keep hanging out at my restaurant venture down town. I show her some pictures and she complies again.
Wanted to stagger it and gain more compliance before moving her all the way downtown... definitely lost lays from moving compliance too fast when I'm rusty. So slowly but surely we get moving on it. I start to be a little more sexual, saying something about male bikinis versus female bikinis and how women are so lucky they can just walk around half naked and nowhere seems to care. She hits me back with my ability to do so in a speedo and I go, "wow you really are brazilian!" and she laughs.
It absolutely helped that this woman did not know shit about the city and I'm fairly versed in where to go, what to do, etc. Leading was too easy.
At the dinner, I'm NGL it was kinda boring with her. The restaurant itself had gone through some major changes that aren't exactly great, and our seating was just really bad. The service was terrible too, lol so we basically made fun of that the whole time. Eventually the deep diving comes back and I lean into the sex therapist frames I set earlier and explain that the communication men and women have in relationships is so different, particularly in how men and women talk about sex.
"Men, if they tell their friends about the sex they're having... keep it so simple. I really don't talk about it other than 1-2 very close and trusted friends.... as to not possibly harm the reputation of the woman.... but when sex comes up it's like, "yeah - her ass was awesome", and that's it."
She laughs so hard and says how women talk about way more than that (which I know, but I want HER to be the one TELLING ME this stuff. I kept this same dynamic for the adventurous frames, and for the frames about how sex communication between partners should be better).
I stagger the sex communication between partners into sex talk seamlessly, mainly about how married couples will have a relationship for YEARS, decades even, without the man getting to explore some adventurous parts of sex and then maybe cheating, or the woman not actually reaching orgasm and then cheating. Or at the very least having both partners just disappointed about their present situation. And about how if a woman's mind is set to the right place, orgasms don't have to be that hard.
Then she starts to tell me how she needs to be emotionally attracted to the man she's sleeping with to even get aroused, and I loop back into the speedo comment from earlier, "What so a cute California man in a speedo isn't enough for you?" and she laughs super hard, so I touch her leg with a devilish smile.
The dinner wraps up, and good news, her friends' flight got delayed. I say "well we still should get your car home. how about one tequila shot and then we make sure that's safe before more adventure" (keeping whatever the adventure is ambiguous). She agrees and I tell her I'll call the uber to her car. We walk away, and as we're waiting I ask, "do you have any wine at your hotel?". She doesn't and I say, "would you like to fix that?" and touch her wrist, looking deeply into her eyes. She gets a little nervous here and says that we should not do that... because..... and then can't think of a reason.
I go, "we shouldn't do that....?"
She says, "no - you are super wonderful but no we shouldn't"
Yes ladderish, while pulling her into me slowly "Okay, so you met me by chance... you've been having a great time with me... and we agree on a lot of... interesting topics (I start getting hard here)... would you say that's right?" (fully push her into my half hard dick while leaning my face in)... and BOOM she kisses me.
GG lmao. Total 180 on her frame. When you've set all the right frames, arousal will push through LMR. It was just a little LMR too lol she didn't shit test me with it... was just nerves.
After that it wasn't much more than getting to her hotel and keeping the vibes high, using more touch on her legs and inner thighs. Walked through the door threw her on the bed and gave it to her proper. Was out of there in an hour, she wasn't that exciting in bed tbh lol.
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