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Here in Chicago, didn't go "out" but its my first full days night and i take things slow. I discover and i think ill be back regularly but we'll see but i went in, to the local bar. Got in a few good conversations, a couple long and deep ones with two guys, one after the other. I needed that, i needed real human connection. Also chatted with the cute barmaid when it was quiet. I was told and convinced 20 years ago in first wave of game not to drink. Stay sober, save your money, be on point and doesn't alcohol kill brain cells anyway? God how do you do it? Alcohol is a connector it really is. Pub crawls made my euro trip last year.. but i don't need much.
I was trained or trained myself in the past that its all about game, all purposeful, not about undirected or semi directed (sexual agenda for sure) communication. I think that is neurotogenic now. I would have liked my interlocutors to be more female but i did pass people in the escalators and lobby and i realize suspicion and barriers are the norm especially now more than ever but if you find a way to get through them the people open up
Learned charisma... Is kind of i don't know. Can you learn it, can you really be following a rule or a principle (and still come across as human)?
I think all we need to be is human but the modern world made people inhuman and afraid ie suspicious but you can open past this- perhaps that's what true and real "opening" is - and be a "leader" in that
I didn't know it at the time but years ago i internalized some false ideas of game or avoided game because of some suspicions but never 100 percent. I'm not a teacher btw im nobody's role model. I never get laid though I'm attractive and interesting.
What i realized is i was aiming at Dionysian, real erotic playful energy, embodied and spirit.. but also now more than ever thanks to phones people are guarded but a man can bust them out with enough what people i think foolishly call confidence but you might also gall spirit - and spirits can play a role for sure but only a limited role - or just mood or restless or even a kind of contempt of the banal or whatever. I find those trying to 'be' confident or even worse prove to others they're confident pitiable but the world is suspicious, it runs on signal but you can get around this with people when you cross over and give them permission and then they open up
I was trained or trained myself in the past that its all about game, all purposeful, not about undirected or semi directed (sexual agenda for sure) communication. I think that is neurotogenic now. I would have liked my interlocutors to be more female but i did pass people in the escalators and lobby and i realize suspicion and barriers are the norm especially now more than ever but if you find a way to get through them the people open up
Learned charisma... Is kind of i don't know. Can you learn it, can you really be following a rule or a principle (and still come across as human)?
I think all we need to be is human but the modern world made people inhuman and afraid ie suspicious but you can open past this- perhaps that's what true and real "opening" is - and be a "leader" in that
I didn't know it at the time but years ago i internalized some false ideas of game or avoided game because of some suspicions but never 100 percent. I'm not a teacher btw im nobody's role model. I never get laid though I'm attractive and interesting.
What i realized is i was aiming at Dionysian, real erotic playful energy, embodied and spirit.. but also now more than ever thanks to phones people are guarded but a man can bust them out with enough what people i think foolishly call confidence but you might also gall spirit - and spirits can play a role for sure but only a limited role - or just mood or restless or even a kind of contempt of the banal or whatever. I find those trying to 'be' confident or even worse prove to others they're confident pitiable but the world is suspicious, it runs on signal but you can get around this with people when you cross over and give them permission and then they open up
