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- Aug 17, 2014
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Hello to all on GirlsChase,
I come to this board on my journey of self-improvement and self-discovery, in the hopes that by loving myself for who I am, and striving to be the best I can be, that I can share the love with all I come across (especially women and seduction).
It has been a trying couple of years with numerous terrible experiences (if anyone wishes to have a heart to heart, I'm willing by PM), and I am attempting to recover and find my path in life to be the best I can be.
As an ethnic minority, I was not so much picked on or bullied because I kept my mouth shut most of the time and helped people out in school work (supplicating beta male behavior who avoids conflict). What I wasn't aware of at the time was that it was building on me, a character of a man who may have been successful in the 50s as a gentleman, but not in today's modern society. In the span of the last several months, by usage of an app, I have become aware of the power of my words and the power of looks (I'm not the best looking man by any means, but I try to keep in shape). The changes it has on people when you refrain from being the supplicant, and the people pleaser, to one who helps because he's confident and assertive, and he does it without expectation, on his own terms.
I want to be able to carry that throughout my life, and help others achieve a form of happiness. Not by making them happy, but by showing them a way to be, a guide to be. I've attempted to go up to several women, and attempt direct openers. They may not have led to much, but I did enjoy myself, and strangely enough, even when I felt I didn't look my best (not even close), none turned me down completely. It was eye opening.
As far as education goes, I've graduated college/university, but I could never get into the swing of being a 9-5 corporate servant that would get married and settle down like my parents did back in their country. I feel like there's alot more to life, alot more I can offer, and in the process of doing so, I came across this website. I like the fact that it stresses upon the difference between manipulating women and being honest and loving to them, while not supplicating and being assertive and not having to hide our desires as men (straight men, I have no problem with gays, lesbians, etc for the record).
I am also somewhat excited about the prospect of breaking a woman's cultural barrier, since I view it as a challenge to improve and attempt. Good to meet you all and good luck to my fellow seducers in progress (at all levels).
Any tips or advice for the newbie are welcome and encouraged.
I come to this board on my journey of self-improvement and self-discovery, in the hopes that by loving myself for who I am, and striving to be the best I can be, that I can share the love with all I come across (especially women and seduction).
It has been a trying couple of years with numerous terrible experiences (if anyone wishes to have a heart to heart, I'm willing by PM), and I am attempting to recover and find my path in life to be the best I can be.
As an ethnic minority, I was not so much picked on or bullied because I kept my mouth shut most of the time and helped people out in school work (supplicating beta male behavior who avoids conflict). What I wasn't aware of at the time was that it was building on me, a character of a man who may have been successful in the 50s as a gentleman, but not in today's modern society. In the span of the last several months, by usage of an app, I have become aware of the power of my words and the power of looks (I'm not the best looking man by any means, but I try to keep in shape). The changes it has on people when you refrain from being the supplicant, and the people pleaser, to one who helps because he's confident and assertive, and he does it without expectation, on his own terms.
I want to be able to carry that throughout my life, and help others achieve a form of happiness. Not by making them happy, but by showing them a way to be, a guide to be. I've attempted to go up to several women, and attempt direct openers. They may not have led to much, but I did enjoy myself, and strangely enough, even when I felt I didn't look my best (not even close), none turned me down completely. It was eye opening.
As far as education goes, I've graduated college/university, but I could never get into the swing of being a 9-5 corporate servant that would get married and settle down like my parents did back in their country. I feel like there's alot more to life, alot more I can offer, and in the process of doing so, I came across this website. I like the fact that it stresses upon the difference between manipulating women and being honest and loving to them, while not supplicating and being assertive and not having to hide our desires as men (straight men, I have no problem with gays, lesbians, etc for the record).
I am also somewhat excited about the prospect of breaking a woman's cultural barrier, since I view it as a challenge to improve and attempt. Good to meet you all and good luck to my fellow seducers in progress (at all levels).
Any tips or advice for the newbie are welcome and encouraged.
