Breaking Point

[Zoro]

So I'm in need of some moral support.

I've been reading up girlschase and similar sites for maybe a year now. All this time and I can probably count the amount of approaches I've done on one hand. I feel like this is the last puzzle piece to be laid down for me. I feel I have good fundamentals and feel comfortable in other areas with women but not the first few seconds of the interaction! This is crazy because I even get attention from girls often, I notice girls glancing, staring, and even not so subtle approach invitations.

Right now I just started college after taking a semester off to travel. (Went to Colombia, got a lot of attention, did nothing about it there as well) After being away from people my own age so long it feels great! The best part is I see tons of cute, interesting girls all day. I really want to break through this. I feel so close too.

I basically dumped all my friends and turned into a lone wolf. I'm looking for a new pack, one that is as hungry as I am. The problem is the packs are right in my face and I'm cowering in the brush. I'm sick of letting opportunity after opportunity slink on by.

Funny thing is, I've brainstormed what to do and since this is causing me quite a bit of stress, I considered taking a break from all this... Taking a break from what? Inaction and not approaching? I think once I break through it will be a lot less stressful and "taking a break" would be counter intuitive.

Perhaps I'm beating myself up too much.

I'm not sure what I need, is it a slap in the face, a new angle on this, or something else.

Part of me actually is growing excited for the challenge, for the hardships and overcoming them. I think cultivating this feeling may be my key.
Any thoughts on how I can fan the flames of my burning heart?

Now I turn to you, my brothers.


J Wick

 

[BarryS1]

I basically dumped all my friends and turned into a lone wolf. I'm looking for a new pack, one that is as hungry as I am. The problem is the packs are right in my face and I'm cowering in the brush. I'm sick of letting opportunity after opportunity slink on by.

I feel you right here on this one! I started the newbie assignment beginning of August and I ditched ALL my friends except for three girls who include me in their social circles. During weekends on approaching, I feel happy, but the rest of the week is depressing. I miss hanging out with my friends, despite having them set me back. The only interaction I have with people is classmates, co-workers, family, and girls from cold-approaches. The greatest piece of advice I learned from the site is this: the skills used for gaining affection of friends DO NOT translate to seducing girls.

Funny thing is, I've brainstormed what to do and since this is causing me quite a bit of stress, I considered taking a break from all this... Taking a break from what? Inaction and not approaching? I think once I break through it will be a lot less stressful and "taking a break" would be counter intuitive.

I started reading the site in February and thought I could go on with the rest of my life and be successful, but BOY was I wrong. It was not until following the steps of the Newbie assignment that I could really relate to the content of the articles. I am thinking the same thing: reading the articles keeps my mind focused on the lifestyle of a PUA and the idea is getting boring. After reading a lot of articles, I think we can get the hang of the GENERAL steps to take. Everything gets tiring after a while, the first six months of reading the content I was like, "I should be good right?" I found that the newbie assignment really mixed things up for me and brought a breath of fresh air to the idea of being a PUA.

Part of me actually is growing excited for the challenge, for the hardships and overcoming them. I think cultivating this feeling may be my key.
Any thoughts on how I can fan the flames of my burning heart?

I think we are both waiting for the dividends to pay off. We are differing pleasure in the present for the future. The benefits of abundance will come after gaining skills of seducing girls.

Keep up the work!