Bring back physical game part 2.- Featuring ijjjjji containment and 60 yoc secrets of micro escalations

[Skills]

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Alright guys i spent the last couple of days going off on a seducer, he couldn't text for shit! his texting improved tremendously, tears come out of my eyes when i saw his texting, he has second generations verbals on point (wayyyyyyy better than me like 50 times he is very technical), he goes on a date and he did not fucking touch the girl at all, anyways.... There is some none sense going on about not doing anything physical, yes! you can get away with that, i can get away with that, done it... Is not high odds, field test yourself, i already have one guy flip from this line of thinking after delivering with 2 girls perfect verbals (another one that makes my second gen. verbals look like a toodler) but guess what he would not have laid both girls without physical escalations... here is from skills:

It seems that the community went through a phase of verbal game, then we went through a phase of physical game, then some of the guys from nextasf brought back verbal game with the second generation stuff.... The problem is it seems that most of the guys for what i notice in the forum have totally abandoned physical game and/or the physical escalation are sloppy or off which causes the women in some cases to abort.... Physical game is very important, most of my lays came as a result of physical game vs verbal game.... However, i realized that i was wrong and changed my game to destructive levels, they are BOTH important and in some cases you better be able to use one more than the other, for example in a extremely loud club if you don't know physical game you are totally DONE, if the girl does not speak your language if you don't know physical game you are DONE, if you have a group of people present and you don't know how to invisibly micro escalate and amp the tension you are wasting seduction capital etc.... in most cases...

Now physical game is not touching a girl or escalating sloppy or touching all over the place, it has to be done with 2 elements one is with restrained/containment/sexual tension vs abrupt physical touching and micro escalations that increase her compliance, investment and arousal....

But skills how do i do this? i got you, first you are going to learn the secrets of micro escalation from 60 yoc (please study periodically and eventually get his complete book):

Wayback Machine

Then you will periodically read, understand and practice ijjjji containment (restrain, it is hard concept to understand eventually i will work on a video to demo how is done for now look at 0:15-0:48 ONLY on my old video, closest to the concept i could find so far, eventually i will do a whole video featuring myself with a girl cause i do this a lot):

Disclaimer.- They say ijjji was a kj i personally don't think he was and i argued with ijjji from day one when i got to nextasf and at times thought he was taking some of my stuff and explaining it but i have 0 proof could be commonalities, but anybody entitled to their opinion, i do admit he went through a shit posting phase post injury, and his graphs pissed me off, but some posters understood and like that shit!... Here is by rip ijjjji containment:

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Containment​

07-04-2014, 06:08 PM

A vibe (short for 'vibration', aka radiance/transmitted emotion/aura etcetc..) draws ALL its dramaturgical leverage (energy/impact) from the sense that what is seen, is just a minor part of something vastly greater. That its just a small trickle coming from an entire raging river, just beneath the surface (Song: Yta = surface).

IOW, if someone looks at you in an emotionally charged way, you can glimpse the things they feel like doing to you.

It is this glimpsing, that creates the whole dramatic energy. OTOH if they act openly in full congruence with their vibe, the whole drama/intensity vanishes instantly.
-Picture a fairly attractive person, deliberately rotating slowly towards you, perfectly controlling a cool composure, except for locking eyes with you for a single erotically charged second.
-Now picture the same person instead attempting to literally hump your leg, while staring at you with a drunkishly aroused facial expression...

Re-cap: intense vibe/drama comes down to only one thing: Letting your vibe speak loudly while CONTAINING your physical actions.

Especially in regard to horny vibes, you can quickly feel that the CONTAINED energy from doing this, densifies to an energy-storm inside you. When you are in this INNER STORM STATE, the glimpses that others perceive become more breath taking, simply because they sense the growing DIVIDE between your calm exterior and the raging energy underneath. That sense that imminent eruption is unavoidable....

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Okay but what are practical ways of doing this, when out partying in bars and clubs?

Firstly, CONTAINMENT is 90% about TEMPO, since any eruption of any kind starts with a sharp acceleration. So, most of all, CONTAIN YOUR TEMPO. Which means that you should be a bit like a stalking panther, in absolutely all your movements. But especially.... when there is obvious reason towards speeding up!! Because nothing communicates CONTAINMENT better than controlling tempo in JUST such situations.. (Not moving at all is the ultimate form of this. Same often goes for SILENCE!! Check out some of the oldest Clint Eastwood movies..)

Secondly, NOT letting your desires make you do things prematurely(**). Like making out (please recall the leg-humping example from above!)

(Shyness, real or enacted, actually works well as a type of attractive containment, as long as you can manage to not fully break the connection. IOW, shyness is sexy as long as you manage to not fully kill the conversation.)

Thirdly, doing something, which is a lot LESS than your vibe would suggest. Example: caressing her cheek über gently, while your eyes say you want to fuck her so hard she cant walk next day. (Or talking über polite and softly to a scumbag who just pissed you off, while your vibe is fuming with rage.. this is the type of stuff all great drama is made from.)

(**: All things are premature, until they can be done as the 'LESS THAN EXPECTED', described above.)

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So you will:
-move like panther and slow-turn for drama
-set people on fire with your eyes and energy - NOT your hands/tongue/cock etc..
-when you engage physically, you will do a lot LESS than expected from your eyes/energy at that point..

All this CONTAINMENT of energy will build and build inside you, until it feels like the very AIR around you is electrified..

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(Yes this is just a vastly improved way of expressing what I earlier tried to communicate using the word 'vacuum'. (Vacuum being nothing more than a byproduct of containment, hence a silly starting point for trying to explain. Sorry about that. Feel free to re-read my vacuum threads in light of this improved explanation though, if you have the time/inclination.)

p.s. guys Look at glow reply here also very helpful...

 

[ocean_eyes]

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Here is by rip ijjjji containment:

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p.s. guys Look at glow reply here also very helpful...

I feel like most celebrities are like this (their energy is very intense yet CONTAINED), if you ever met them in person...in fact I think most people who become famous do this very well, naturally or subconsciously. But I dont have a huge sample size of celebrities to study so call me KJ if you must

 

[POB]

There's also the goal of reaching common sexual ground with her. I doesn't matter if you get to the right state if she is not riding along wit you, and vice versa. It's like a dance: the man always leads, but both must be in sync on all steps.

Some chicks are kinda of slow and take longer to "get it", so you have to pace and grab her by both hands like a toddler, kinda of vibing from her energy and respecting her own time and pace. Others are super sexual and smart and need to be restrained from getting sexual too fast, or else they may get nervous and rebound hard on their own ASD, especially when they figure out sex is really about to happen (this is why some guys blunder the lay and get last minute resistance with super green chicks).

 

[foggy]

i read it. then i reread it. and then i kept reading it until....containment finally clicked.

it was that moment I became conscious of my own containment abilities.

i started practicing and now all i can say is...

wow.

thx for digging this up @Skills

 

[ocean_eyes]

With so much focus on gym and food (low-ish carbs, high protein, hella fat) - my sex drive is AMPED but it can be a bit chaotic...

Practical things helping me with containment:
Meditation
Yoga
Appoggio breathing (esp around any girls)

 

[Vitalist]

Here is by rip ijjjji containment:

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p.s. guys Look at glow reply here also very helpful...

Hi @Skills , where is this from? An old forum or blog? I can't seem to find it by google searching

 

[Skills]

Hi @Skills , where is this from? An old forum or blog? I can't seem to find it by google searching

Is from the hall of fame of nextasf...forum gone