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After some bad rejections last week my confidence was actually strangely high. I think it's because rejections don't get much worse than 'go away!' kinda thing and I had that last week and i'm still alive so I felt strangely confident (although i did watch an infield yesterday of honest signals 'vadim' get told 'you're ugly and old! Go away!!' on a harsh rejection haha)
Anyway, was trying some different openers off of advice someone on a PUA forum gave me, and then going into certain cold reads like he does. I wasn't able to confirm some things in terms of a 'plan/structure/script/whatever before I had to head out so can't guarantee I didn't do it all wrong, although I gather it's basically the 'most fun' opener, and then he goes into a cold read about 'you look like your from xxx/are you from xxx' whereas I live in a small town not in the US where everyone is from here and i'm not sure there'd be much point in say that so not sure what the best follow up would be. I of course have tonnes of things I could say based on other methods i've read/paid for, but i done them things in my last field report (even the 'i thought i'd come and say hi' opener i used that was apparently awful is one I got from a PUA course!) and it was apparently wrong, so implementing the new advice for now from the PUA guy
Anyway, here we go
opened girl next to me after getting my beer. Told her she looks like she's having the best time ever. She just kinda looks at me. I cold read her as the one who's trouble in her friend group and she says 'not really' and kind of looks away. I Made an observation about her drink and her clothes and said she looks like she used to be an avril lavigne fan. Then Stacked a few assumptions and cold read her star sign. She shakes her head. I guess a few more times and eventually get it right. Tell her we wouldn't get along. Ask her age. 18. I say, ''Oh, that's cool. Y'all actually seem mature for your age. Are you on tiktok'' and she says she's more of an instagram girl. Teased her about spending all her time on insta (not sure if good or not. couldn't really think of a good line to reply with about instagram). Tell her she has an interesting energy and ask her to join me on the table near by but she says 'no thanks have a good night'
I open a girl and tell he she looks like she's having the most fun her and she's like 'not yet!' and laughs. I ask her what she's up too and she says she's just finished seeing some work friends and she's just having another drink or 2 before headed home. I cold read her as 'trouble' and the one who is always up to no good. She says 'nah, not really' and asks my name. I ask her age and she's 20 and I tell her she seems mature and ask if she's on tiktok. She says she used to be. I cold read her starsign and guess right. I say I knew it and say I have a love hate relationship with aries girls. I tell her to come outside with me to sit down but she declines and says she's ok by herself. So don't have 'attraction' yet. Need to do more cold reads i guess so cold read some stuff about her her job and her family and assume she's an only child and i'm right. I ask what colour her eyes are and just of look at her and triangular gaze a bit to build some more attraction and sexual tension and she says 'PLEASE don't even think about trying to kiss me! You're nice but you're not my type'. I accuse her of getting ahead of herself and how I don't even know her and i'venot decided if she's MY type yet (reframe) and she's like 'ok. Just don't try'. Trying to think of some more cold reads and stuff here. Think I cold read one about how she meets guys and then we chatted a little about tinder for a few minutes and she started talking about how she mostly just meets guys on tinder and what her type is (and pointed at the handsome barman). Feeling a bit futile here but I tell her she's trouble to get a bit of attraction and we chat a bit more and then I try again to get her to move with me but again she declines and tells me she's gonna finish her drink and head off soon and says it was nice to meet me. I decided to eject at this point and let hoer shoot her shot with the hot barman!
Do'nt remember much about this set but I opened with the 'mischevious' opener and she just smiled and said something like 'i just thought i saw someone I knew'. I cold read and tell her she looks like an accountant and she says 'close' and tells me she works in payroll. She asks me what I do which I take as an IOI and I give her a silly answer and she laughs and then i tell her the truth. I tell her she looks like trouble and she's someone who seems innocent but she's actually a badass or something. She kinda shrugs. She's taller than me and I ask how tall she is and kinda pull her towards me to test compliance but she kinda pulls back. Starting to think she's a 'polite' girl as opposed too an 'attracted' girl but I assume attraction and ask her what she has going for her other than her looks (qualify). She tells me she's fun and got a good head on her shoulders. I tell her I like that (reward qualification) and I tell her to come over teh road with me to grab a drink as it's dead in here and she declines. She then opens some guy and is firing questions at him about his tatts (seems to like him) and we have little three way chat for a while and then she ejected. Me and the guy are now chatting lol. I decide to go too a different bar
I open a girl and tell her she looks like she's having the most fun here. She looks a bit confused and then says 'I do? Ok'. I notice her accent and cold read her being from Hungary. Actually from Poland. Told her I was there recently. I make some cold reads about her star sign. Wrong guesses. Her friend arrives. I try to get the friend involved. We talk about their home country and I dhv about having travelled there with an 'ex girlfriend'. I tell them they look like they're waiting for their tinder dates to show up. They laugh and then one tells me she's married. We chat a little longer. I ask the married one if her friend (target) is trouble and whether she's always getting up to mischief. She said 'you can ask her yourself'. I look the target up and down suspisciously like I think she is. I cold read her as a gemini but she says no. I do a few more cold reads and stuff. I ask her age and she's only just 19. I say ''Oh, that's cool. Y'all actually seem mature for your age. Are you on tiktok'' and she says no. I ask her if she does anything fun in her spare time to qualify her but she just says 'this and that'. I say 'mysterious!' and then do a pushpull about how we wouldn't get along. I kinda put my arm around the target and ask the married one if me and target make a cute couple (got that from RSD) and the married one laughs and the target says 'never gonna happen!!' and removed my arm from her shoulder lol. Married girl tells me the target likes taller guys adn that i'm a bit too old. I laugh it off and then point at a really super tall, really thin old guy who I know she won't like either and say 'like him??' (from maxrsd) and she says 'no!!!'. I ask them some more questions but am running out of things to say a bit as i'm carrying the convo this whole time. It fizzled out shortly after and as soon as it went quiet for like 2 seconds they made their escape.
edit: Almost forget about this set and it's slightly blurry but i think i opened a 2 set telling them they look like they're scheming something. THey just say 'no...' and kind of look away. I'm like 'now i'm even more suspiscious! That's how two schemers would react!'. One of them says 'we've got boyfriends' (this turned out to be a lie!). I say 'what's that got to do with anything? I've got a goldfish'. Can't quite remember what happened here after. Think i tried some cold reads about them being the girls who alway got in trouble at school or something, trying to get a bit of attraction but they were like 2 freaking mutes so I ejected.
Open up a girl at a table and tell her she looks like she's having the most fun here. I ask if she's from here and she is (99% of girls here are born in this town and will live here forever for what it's worth so maybe not worth asking that question after my opener? Need a better transitioner?). I ask her name (mistake? some say not to ask names until she asks yours?) - anyay, after I ask her name i qualify and ask her waht she has going for her other than her looks and she 's like 'awww..you like me! Sorry. You're not my type!' and puts on like a fake sad face kinda thing lol. I say 'who said anything about types'. I'm about to try to reframe it as if she's the one who's talking about us being a 'couple' by bringing up 'types' and play that she's chasing me (reframe technique from toddv) or maybe go to the zodiac sign cold read part of the stack, BUT then her friend joins the table and the girl actually introduces me to her friend. The friend says 'hi'. I can tell by the way the friend looks at me and smiles as she introduces herself that she might be attracted. (very different look from the other girl. She's kinda starrring through me). I ask her name, age, plans for the night (i kind of fell into interview mode here and forgot what I was supposed to be doing e.g telling her she looked like trouble and cold reads etc) but she is answering and asking me stuff and getting close. I tell her she looks like she's the bad one in the group. She laughs and says 'maybe'.She's filling in the gaps in conversation. She's talking a tonne and asking me things and i'm just giving short answers and triangular gazing. We go off to dance. I start to get closer and i clearly have strong attraction and after a while I just go in for the makeout. I move her too a different part of the bar and kiss her a bit more. I suggest going and just have a 'get to know you chat' in the beer garden area where she tells me a bit about her family and her friend group. And then i suggest going back to her place as she lives close. She agrees. We Back to her place and we have sex almost instantly. No LRM at all. Was a decent seduction
Anyway, was trying some different openers off of advice someone on a PUA forum gave me, and then going into certain cold reads like he does. I wasn't able to confirm some things in terms of a 'plan/structure/script/whatever before I had to head out so can't guarantee I didn't do it all wrong, although I gather it's basically the 'most fun' opener, and then he goes into a cold read about 'you look like your from xxx/are you from xxx' whereas I live in a small town not in the US where everyone is from here and i'm not sure there'd be much point in say that so not sure what the best follow up would be. I of course have tonnes of things I could say based on other methods i've read/paid for, but i done them things in my last field report (even the 'i thought i'd come and say hi' opener i used that was apparently awful is one I got from a PUA course!) and it was apparently wrong, so implementing the new advice for now from the PUA guy
Anyway, here we go
opened girl next to me after getting my beer. Told her she looks like she's having the best time ever. She just kinda looks at me. I cold read her as the one who's trouble in her friend group and she says 'not really' and kind of looks away. I Made an observation about her drink and her clothes and said she looks like she used to be an avril lavigne fan. Then Stacked a few assumptions and cold read her star sign. She shakes her head. I guess a few more times and eventually get it right. Tell her we wouldn't get along. Ask her age. 18. I say, ''Oh, that's cool. Y'all actually seem mature for your age. Are you on tiktok'' and she says she's more of an instagram girl. Teased her about spending all her time on insta (not sure if good or not. couldn't really think of a good line to reply with about instagram). Tell her she has an interesting energy and ask her to join me on the table near by but she says 'no thanks have a good night'
I open a girl and tell he she looks like she's having the most fun her and she's like 'not yet!' and laughs. I ask her what she's up too and she says she's just finished seeing some work friends and she's just having another drink or 2 before headed home. I cold read her as 'trouble' and the one who is always up to no good. She says 'nah, not really' and asks my name. I ask her age and she's 20 and I tell her she seems mature and ask if she's on tiktok. She says she used to be. I cold read her starsign and guess right. I say I knew it and say I have a love hate relationship with aries girls. I tell her to come outside with me to sit down but she declines and says she's ok by herself. So don't have 'attraction' yet. Need to do more cold reads i guess so cold read some stuff about her her job and her family and assume she's an only child and i'm right. I ask what colour her eyes are and just of look at her and triangular gaze a bit to build some more attraction and sexual tension and she says 'PLEASE don't even think about trying to kiss me! You're nice but you're not my type'. I accuse her of getting ahead of herself and how I don't even know her and i'venot decided if she's MY type yet (reframe) and she's like 'ok. Just don't try'. Trying to think of some more cold reads and stuff here. Think I cold read one about how she meets guys and then we chatted a little about tinder for a few minutes and she started talking about how she mostly just meets guys on tinder and what her type is (and pointed at the handsome barman). Feeling a bit futile here but I tell her she's trouble to get a bit of attraction and we chat a bit more and then I try again to get her to move with me but again she declines and tells me she's gonna finish her drink and head off soon and says it was nice to meet me. I decided to eject at this point and let hoer shoot her shot with the hot barman!
Do'nt remember much about this set but I opened with the 'mischevious' opener and she just smiled and said something like 'i just thought i saw someone I knew'. I cold read and tell her she looks like an accountant and she says 'close' and tells me she works in payroll. She asks me what I do which I take as an IOI and I give her a silly answer and she laughs and then i tell her the truth. I tell her she looks like trouble and she's someone who seems innocent but she's actually a badass or something. She kinda shrugs. She's taller than me and I ask how tall she is and kinda pull her towards me to test compliance but she kinda pulls back. Starting to think she's a 'polite' girl as opposed too an 'attracted' girl but I assume attraction and ask her what she has going for her other than her looks (qualify). She tells me she's fun and got a good head on her shoulders. I tell her I like that (reward qualification) and I tell her to come over teh road with me to grab a drink as it's dead in here and she declines. She then opens some guy and is firing questions at him about his tatts (seems to like him) and we have little three way chat for a while and then she ejected. Me and the guy are now chatting lol. I decide to go too a different bar
I open a girl and tell her she looks like she's having the most fun here. She looks a bit confused and then says 'I do? Ok'. I notice her accent and cold read her being from Hungary. Actually from Poland. Told her I was there recently. I make some cold reads about her star sign. Wrong guesses. Her friend arrives. I try to get the friend involved. We talk about their home country and I dhv about having travelled there with an 'ex girlfriend'. I tell them they look like they're waiting for their tinder dates to show up. They laugh and then one tells me she's married. We chat a little longer. I ask the married one if her friend (target) is trouble and whether she's always getting up to mischief. She said 'you can ask her yourself'. I look the target up and down suspisciously like I think she is. I cold read her as a gemini but she says no. I do a few more cold reads and stuff. I ask her age and she's only just 19. I say ''Oh, that's cool. Y'all actually seem mature for your age. Are you on tiktok'' and she says no. I ask her if she does anything fun in her spare time to qualify her but she just says 'this and that'. I say 'mysterious!' and then do a pushpull about how we wouldn't get along. I kinda put my arm around the target and ask the married one if me and target make a cute couple (got that from RSD) and the married one laughs and the target says 'never gonna happen!!' and removed my arm from her shoulder lol. Married girl tells me the target likes taller guys adn that i'm a bit too old. I laugh it off and then point at a really super tall, really thin old guy who I know she won't like either and say 'like him??' (from maxrsd) and she says 'no!!!'. I ask them some more questions but am running out of things to say a bit as i'm carrying the convo this whole time. It fizzled out shortly after and as soon as it went quiet for like 2 seconds they made their escape.
edit: Almost forget about this set and it's slightly blurry but i think i opened a 2 set telling them they look like they're scheming something. THey just say 'no...' and kind of look away. I'm like 'now i'm even more suspiscious! That's how two schemers would react!'. One of them says 'we've got boyfriends' (this turned out to be a lie!). I say 'what's that got to do with anything? I've got a goldfish'. Can't quite remember what happened here after. Think i tried some cold reads about them being the girls who alway got in trouble at school or something, trying to get a bit of attraction but they were like 2 freaking mutes so I ejected.
Open up a girl at a table and tell her she looks like she's having the most fun here. I ask if she's from here and she is (99% of girls here are born in this town and will live here forever for what it's worth so maybe not worth asking that question after my opener? Need a better transitioner?). I ask her name (mistake? some say not to ask names until she asks yours?) - anyay, after I ask her name i qualify and ask her waht she has going for her other than her looks and she 's like 'awww..you like me! Sorry. You're not my type!' and puts on like a fake sad face kinda thing lol. I say 'who said anything about types'. I'm about to try to reframe it as if she's the one who's talking about us being a 'couple' by bringing up 'types' and play that she's chasing me (reframe technique from toddv) or maybe go to the zodiac sign cold read part of the stack, BUT then her friend joins the table and the girl actually introduces me to her friend. The friend says 'hi'. I can tell by the way the friend looks at me and smiles as she introduces herself that she might be attracted. (very different look from the other girl. She's kinda starrring through me). I ask her name, age, plans for the night (i kind of fell into interview mode here and forgot what I was supposed to be doing e.g telling her she looked like trouble and cold reads etc) but she is answering and asking me stuff and getting close. I tell her she looks like she's the bad one in the group. She laughs and says 'maybe'.She's filling in the gaps in conversation. She's talking a tonne and asking me things and i'm just giving short answers and triangular gazing. We go off to dance. I start to get closer and i clearly have strong attraction and after a while I just go in for the makeout. I move her too a different part of the bar and kiss her a bit more. I suggest going and just have a 'get to know you chat' in the beer garden area where she tells me a bit about her family and her friend group. And then i suggest going back to her place as she lives close. She agrees. We Back to her place and we have sex almost instantly. No LRM at all. Was a decent seduction
