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Calling her out on behavior

Lawliet

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Hi seducer bros!
Hope you all doing better than ever and scoring goals this weekend!

Do any of you call out on her behavior?
Neutral behaviors such as she's too nervous etc. Will Calling her out on them help her calm down?

Bad behaviors
Now long before, my philosophy was not tolerating bad behaviors, and having hard rules. This is supported by Chase's idea with "non-supplication".
A way of doing this is as:
The site promotes in nonreactiveness and law of least effort in dealing with bad behavior (i.e. bored look when she busts your balls).

I originally would point bad behaviors out before coming across this site. My logic was: this way it strongly assures her that you won't let her slipshod you with whatever she likes that most nice guys do; you have clear boundaries. "Enough with that" or "That's enough" said in a calm but assertive voice is what I do.

Anyone tried being much more direct in pointing the behaviors out and communicating your dislike for them?

Yours,
Lawliet
 

Lawliet

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radeng said:
Lawliet,

As most social things go, it's all in how you say it, and much less about what you say. Calling a girl out may make her chill out if you do it right or may make her way worse and dislike you if you do it wrong. The words you use matter much less than the subtext, humor, smoothness, suave and sexiness behind those words.

Radeng

Hmm, awesome stuff bro. any examples?
Setting up hard rules or "I don't like it when you do that" sorta thing
 
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