Can I work the Zoo date or Should I avoid it?

[thecloudsandrain]

Hello All,

So I have a date pending and I need to figure out the logistics. She has already suggested some:

Her: I can do lunch on Friday or we can just hang out...go to the zoo or something.

Generally, I take a girl to a restaurant and then bring her back to my place, but lately that has been failing a lot. I just find it difficult to get the right sexual vibe going during dinner. I feel like the Zoo would be a good option. It's winter so we'll both be alone in a basic ghost town. We'll both be cold so it'll be easy to get touching going and establish some sexual vibe, perhaps even kissing, but logistically it doesn't seem good for sex.

Another problem I have is that this women is from my Christian social circle and I feel like she hasn't kept our meeting together a secret. She's kind of on the periphery of the circle, but kinda not. I'm worried. If I try to sleep with her it might back fire on me if it gets to the social circle. The youth pastor isn't suppose to do this kinda stuff!

I should be more decisive, but I like hearing different opinions...

FM

 

[trashKENNUT]

thecloudsandrain,

i know that religion and sex doesn't go well together (although i personally beg to differ because on what the original leaders preach, ROAR!). Anyway, if she's a girl who's the talkative type, i suggest cancelling the date. Like you said, you do not want everybody to know.

Zac

 

[thecloudsandrain]

Well, it looks like I didn't need to cancel the date after all. She caught a cold a couple of days ago so she canceled the zoo date for me.

The Good News: She rescheduled with me for next week, but this time we'll be at her apartment watching a movie and doing root beer floats.

Her: Hey, so I hate to cancel but this cold is kicking my butt. : ( Can we reschedule?
Me: Good Morning Sarah! Yeah, it's no problem we can reschedule.
Me: Just tell me when you're free or shoot me a message when you start to feel better.
Her: Sure...What's your work schedule like?
Me: (I give her my schedule)
Her: Cool next week then! Do you like root beer floats? Maybe a movie and then floats?
Me: Next week, your place, you bring the movie I'll bring the floats.
Her: Perfect
Me: Just send me a message when you feel better and we'll get the time and date down.

The interesting thing...when she said maybe a movie and then floats? I thought she meant a movie theater movie and then root beer floats at a restaurant. I wasn't quite sure how she was going to respond once I said her place. I almost feel like this could have been a test. A nice guy takes her idea and says "hey that's great. I'll pick you up and we'll go to the theater." A sexual guy...he chooses her apartment.

If I get a chance to bed her...I'm doing it! I feel like she already knows what to expect. Also, the great thing about women is whether you succeed in taking them to bed or not, they generally keep what ever happened a secret out of a need to protect their reputation.

Exciting!

- thecloudsandrain

 

[Rebel]

This date sounds infinitely better. She's basically inviting you over to her house, so she knows what she's possibly getting herself into.

Lunch to sex never happens. Zoo would be okay, but only if the zoo is close to your place.